I’m currently interested in a very nice guy who is so adventurous. He has a very outgoing, fun, risk-taking side to him. Some words to describe him are spontaneous, tough, independent, confident, joyful, social, straightforward, fair, liberal, attentive, enthusiastic, bold, etc.
He says he really wants a wife who is also adventurous herself, but I’m kind of in the middle. I am up for trying random fun adventurous activities but I’m not fully one to be energetic and do a lot of things to pass time.
I wanted to ask this forum what they think is important to make an adventurous guy happy.
Does a guy like this need to have a lot of “fun and adventure” in the bedroom too? Does he need a sexually-bold woman in his life? And in other realms, what would I have to do to please him/make him happy.
I don’t think I’m too bold and daring, so I’m scared for our future. Any advice?
I am not so adventurous in real-life and I’m too sexually-inexperienced to know if I will be good in the bedroom. But I think a guy like him does want a bold, daring, sexually fun wife. More than others would. Am I right? But our religion and culture takes away from our ability to experiment with men sexually, so I never had the chance to develop those skills. What should I do? I’m serious.
I am sort of personality type what ya described for ya’re fella. Not sure what ya asking..but i am sure since ya are together with him..he understands ya too. With that said..remember to be yourself always. Don’t go around pleasing for what he wants to see in his woman. Situation like this..i am sure both of ya can compromise here…there..
Okay seriously if he is as you say, all I will say is that you dont need to be Superwoman to keep up with him, in any relationship the Woman has a special place and while sure he might think its awesome to be jumping canyons one minute if he is serious about settling down he will always come home to you in a very different manner. Most guys I know who spend thier time doing hair raising high brow stuff tend to be quite fellas when they get home… I’m sure you will be fine.
A good man will always be quite at home but a raging storm outside the house, while a bad man will always be a quite fella outside and never stand up to bullies or people not of his own, but he wont hessitate to smack his kids or beat his wife. I hope you find yourself a good chap and if he is a daring fellow he will be just as down to earth in good time…
Ever heard of opposites attract. there is always one opposite than the other to keep the relationship balanced. I dont mean not fun loving or just very quiet but and in between person. imagine if both people in a relation are exciting adventurous all the time, one needs a serious person to handle the adventurousness right. and in a vice versa relationship, one needs an outgoing fun person to bring out the craziness.
I am not going to comment on bedroom stuff as it doesn’t matter IMO.
This guy sounds a bit like me, if he is like me he will be motivated by curiosity which leads him to constantly seek out new things and be adventerous. For me being slightly adventerous won’t cut the mustard as you probbably won’'t be able to keep up. I have lots of energy, I travel a lot (been. 40 countries around the world) been on road trips from UK-Asia and allsorts, for me my partner must be able to keep up with me in this regard, it also requires good health, Adaptability and flexibility. I try to make life as interesting as possible, the only way you can do that is to make it interesting **yourself **no magic wand will make it interesting, some people are happy to plod through life in the same manner, and not see or experience anything new, unless you start meddling with other people to make it interesting.
Taking risks is part of life, However make sure he takes calculated risks rather than just random risks (seeing what he has to lose if the risk doesn’t pay off)
There is also a chance that he may be pretty independent, therefore he may just be adventurous on his own instead if you can’t cut the mustard otherwise you may just end up being a ball and chain.
Having said all that, I’m not exactly irresponsible and am organised, one of my friends is similar, however he is very disorganized and that I can see being a liability.
Essentially you need to make sure you can keep up and have lots of energy. Another thing is ensure that he will be comitted, if he gets bored easily and always needs a new challange, he may have the same attitude towards women (another thing I’ve seen)
let me try