Re: How to make an adventurous man happy?
I'm currently interested in a very nice guy who is so adventurous. He has a very outgoing, fun, risk-taking side to him. Some words to describe him are spontaneous, tough, independent, confident, joyful, social, straightforward, fair, liberal, attentive, enthusiastic, bold, etc.
He says he really wants a wife who is also adventurous herself, but I'm kind of in the middle. I am up for trying random fun adventurous activities but I'm not fully one to be energetic and do a lot of things to pass time.
I wanted to ask this forum what they think is important to make an adventurous guy happy.
Does a guy like this need to have a lot of "fun and adventure" in the bedroom too? Does he need a sexually-bold woman in his life? And in other realms, what would I have to do to please him/make him happy.
I don't think I'm too bold and daring, so I'm scared for our future. Any advice?
I am not going to comment on bedroom stuff as it doesn't matter IMO.
This guy sounds a bit like me, if he is like me he will be motivated by curiosity which leads him to constantly seek out new things and be adventerous. For me being slightly adventerous won't cut the mustard as you probbably won''t be able to keep up. I have lots of energy, I travel a lot (been. 40 countries around the world) been on road trips from UK-Asia and allsorts, for me my partner must be able to keep up with me in this regard, it also requires good health, Adaptability and flexibility. I try to make life as interesting as possible, the only way you can do that is to make it interesting **yourself **no magic wand will make it interesting, some people are happy to plod through life in the same manner, and not see or experience anything new, unless you start meddling with other people to make it interesting.
Taking risks is part of life, However make sure he takes calculated risks rather than just random risks (seeing what he has to lose if the risk doesn't pay off)
There is also a chance that he may be pretty independent, therefore he may just be adventurous on his own instead if you can't cut the mustard otherwise you may just end up being a ball and chain.
Having said all that, I'm not exactly irresponsible and am organised, one of my friends is similar, however he is very disorganized and that I can see being a liability.
Essentially you need to make sure you can keep up and have lots of energy. Another thing is ensure that he will be comitted, if he gets bored easily and always needs a new challange, he may have the same attitude towards women (another thing I've seen)
let me try