Re: How to let go of someone?
Eliminate your desires to be with that person, train your heart to say "NO" and you'll be at peace.
^easily said then done
feelins r just in the mind , its not sumthing physical . the mind can be told not to think abt sumthin or sumone its not difficult i;e if one really wants it.
sum ppl hav a tenatious mind they like to hold on to stuff esp the stuff that hurts.
Re: How to let go of someone?
Letting go of someone is a battle between the heart and brain. Train yourself to forget this person and slowly your heart will follow. Make tons of dua and keep yourself occupied to the best of your ability. Life is too short to cry over someone. Inshaallah with time all will be well.
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whats up waterfall??? Hang on in there!!!.. ULL be better for it hun…
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Re: How to let go of someone?
^ What’s that all about?:aq:
Re: How to let go of someone?
Substitute them with someone or somthing else. Easy as 1 2 3.
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^ Its not as easy 
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I've always viewed life in a funny way. I try to be objective and separate my emotions from myself. I try to see that life is like a big test and a series of lessons. I feel like everyone I meet is there to teach me something. I can't own or posess anyone or anything. I try to remove my ego from every situation.
For instance, I had a friend who killed himself over 10 years ago. I miss him very much. He was an up and coming artist and it's a great loss that someone so young and talented is gone. But he let his emotions control him all the time. He had no ability to separate his ego from himself. He lived in constant emotional pain. It's like he was digging himself into a hole and couldn't see the beautiful world and feel the warm sun around him.
You should never try to forget someone or substitute someone. Appreciate what you had. Feel things deeply and understand the lessons. And know that life moves on without you. You can sit in a chair and be sad and depressed, but life will keep going. You can choose to be a part of it and surrender yourself to whatever God chooses for you. That's when you find happiness -when you let go of your need to hold on and posess something.
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^ Awww,nice
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^think a few yrs ahead from now. Would you even remember this? You are gona sit there and laugh over how much you cried for no reason.
I am going through a very similar situation as you. I chose not to cry over it. I made myself busy in work, I go out with my friends, pray, watch TV, write, read etc. It keeps me busy and when I am busy, I feel this joy which helps me overcome the emotional pain.