How do you let go / forget someone you have been so close to.I know it’s difficult but not impossible.How can it be made easy to be dealt with?
Re: How to let go of someone?
find an alternate
Re: How to let go of someone?
Well first of all try to talk to him/her as less as possible. Block the ways of contacts one by one i.e. phone, e-mails, chats etc.
Get yourself busy with something else thats time consuiming and needs your concentration i.e. story writing, reading, cooking, stitching, knitting etc.
Think and believe that Allah has got better plans for you.
Its not so easy :hinna:
Re: How to let go of someone?
Just talk to urself about the reason u want to part. go out with friends, talk to others about fun stuff...1 trick is to hide ur cellphone in the cupboard and not use it for a day or 2 at all..u wont let go until and unless u really want to =).
Re: How to let go of someone?
waterfall hun… this is a real toughie…Im sorry for ur situation but u have to MOVE ON …dont look back …KEEP The faith… AND REMAIN BUSY AND TRAIN UR MIND NOT TO LOOK BACK…God bless xx 
Re: How to let go of someone?
When i think of letting go,i just start thinking that i would lose a sweet and caring person 
Re: How to let go of someone?
.. hunny remind urself of the negatives of that person…as cruel as it is…boot camp urself in thinking of all the un happy times and the way it made u feel and train ur mind to BLOT OUT…inshallah in time you will eventually let go…i told u this was a toughie…
Make lots of dua to give you sabr and sakeena. Always remind yourself that everything happens for a reason, and it was meant to be this way - a test from Allah. Inshallah something even better is in store for you. You this as an opportunity to get even closer to your family and friends...use them as comfort and distraction.
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Yes, i know with time,it should get easier,but as time is passing by,it’s getting difficult Is there any easy way to do it?
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there is no way easy way to do it...juss keep urself bzy..whn u find smeone else..it ll b orrite..
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Time is the biggest healer. With due time, every pain shall erase.
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Time is the healer of all wounds...
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Time + distance and the ability to realise that they were pretty awful after all :hmm:
I can’t seem to think of that.Whenever i think,i instead feel i have been awful to them
I am confused. Are you talking about a lover or friend"S"?
You say you have been awful to THEM.
Then you also said you would lose a loving and caring person.
What is it? It seems like the person is loving and caring - so why have YOU been awful to “them”?
please elaborate who you are talking about. =)
Ok,it’s not them.It’s just one person
Re: How to let go of someone?
Make the right decision and don't be hasty in making a decision. Take ur time and if you are confused, you can always do Istakhara.
Best wishes.
Re: How to let go of someone?
just stop thinkin abt that person altogether. that person neva existed tell ur mind that. period
Re: How to let go of someone?
^easily said then done