Perhaps this is a clue as to why her dark skinned husband is more attached to his mother……someone who loves/accepts him unconditionally. If OP keeps up this attitude, the kid will eventually be more attached to the MIL too.
If kid isn’t gora you can adopt a gori billi. I don’t even think you are a serious poster .
Both of your threads look like you were just playing around. Next time you decide to do this please keep Islam outta your fun sprees.
Happy trolling
all she want is gora bacha,(not that i m saying she is right.) its not like she drinks alcohol or gamble or eat non zabiha food.wo kya kehtey hai. remember we cant judge each other. each to their own. stop bashing. lol sorry dosri thread yaad agai. carry on.
POP dear, ignore these jal kukray log who are bashing you. I can bet that none of them are gora chitta like you or me, so in fact it’s thier jealousy speaking.
Aap ka comment bohat offensive tha. If the issue starting from bachis weight issue ended up in her shaadi issue thanx to the extra ordinary imagination or what not. You did a serious crime.
OP, you sound extremely young and ignorant to be having a baby. I find it despicable that you are more concerned about your baby being attractive than healthy. Some people just shouldn’t have kids in my opinion.
i m so surprised to see people insulting and humiliating her.saying that she does not deserve to have a kid.who are you to decide, Allah jis ko chahey de. . well alcohol rape gambling and eating non halal food wearing reveling clothes also contribute to society’s problem . then liberal say its their own choice or whatever crap. double standerd. people thinking makes me so sick. how about hum apne app ko dekhey instead of insulting others. and if you want to point out. how about do it in good manners. to all the liberal aunties.
if she came on here claiming to these things…we’d be saying the same.
you do not get to reinforce negative stereotypes in our society that make it hard for other kids to feel good about themselves and expect others to do “wah wah! kya teer mara hai! mashallah…kya zahanat dikhai hai!”
wishing to have a fair kid because in some paindu societies being fair fair eeees bootiful and being kaali is not so bootiful - yeah you’re asking for it. kids grow up KNOWING their parents find them beautiful or not. they KNOW and FEEL the pressure to be a certain way. you don’t need to go through labor to know this much. i grew up around girls who used fair and lovely by the tubes so they could feel prettier.
no, its not to each their and own and foolish to think that. if she posted she’s buying her daughter bees tolay ka sona so her in-laws can respect her, i’d think she’d get the same reaction.
While I do find the OP’s post rather disturbing to say the least, I think we must take into account that her rather misguided way of thinking may not be entirely her fault. It would be quite different if an educated individual was asking what the OP is asking. However, the fact she that thinks that it is possible to influence the baby’s appearance based on what the mother eats or does (when most educated people know that this is solely determined by genetics) demonstrates that the OP is not terribly educated and, therefore, may not know any better. I do not think she is asking what she is asking out of malice.
Before anyone says “oh, well she is on a computer and on the internet, so she should be educated enough to know better” I’d like to point out that it does not take much education to work a computer. Now, I am not in any way excusing the OP’s misguided thinking, but rather pointing out that she simply may not know any better. We do not know what her educational background is and for all we know, she may not have had the opportunity to get an education, which would explain her rather antiquated thinking, and this may not have been her fault.