Re: ~! How to have a happy marriage.
No actually it's pretty clear in this surah the reference is towards the husband because it talks about the husband....then it goes on to say towards the end...
"on whose part you fear disloyalty and ill-conduct admonish them (first) (next)refuse to share their beds..........but if they return to obedience seek not against them. ......it's obvious that it refers to the husband.