How to handle

[ashtray]

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or by she way

FF, kaisi ho?

[lost]

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@Raima Noveen

Thanks for all the replies, Rubia is reading everyone’s advise. She feels better that no one thinks that she is selfish. Her husband is on her side and he told his sister to go away, she will be leaving on satureday. Now she thinks that she should atleast name the baby, which is too late because Rubia already filled the paper work in hospital.
Lets see where her whining is going to end.

This is good news. I’m glad to hear that Lubia is going away and that she husband is supporting his wife and children.

One thing Rubia should always remember, NEVER ever feel guilty for making any decisions regarding your children. They’re YOUR children. As parents, your husband and you have the right to have the final say in anything that’s related to your children. The ONLY one you have to answer to for your decisions is Allah. If anyone in the extended family or community doesn’t like the decisions you make regarding your children, they can go sc*ew themselves. Have faith and confidence in your abilities as a mother, and realize that YOU know what’s best for your children.

BTW, no, don’t let Lubia name the boy. Now that she knows that she can’t manipulate her brother into giving the baby away, she’s just starting a new drama with the name business. I’m sure when she realizes Rubia and her hubby won’t let her name the boy, Lubia will come up with something else next.

[cat-woman]

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What an insensitive biatch. Rubia should keep her child and tell her husband and nand to f-off!!

:)

[Raima_Noveen]

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@Femme Fatale

Sad to see what desperation can do to people. What is the boy named by he way?

His dad named him Ziyan Shaw.

[Captain1]

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@cat-woman

What an insensitive biatch. Rubia should keep her child and tell her husband and nand to f-off!!

even after Raima told us that husband has told sister to take the highway?

[blushing_vision]

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Rubia, stay calm, Allah is with u. She should not be pressurized to give her precious baby away. Fathers ke feelings nahin hote kya
Talk 2 ure hubby and encourage him 2 talk 2 his sister about ure feelings. I think that it is impossible 2 give up a baby… really! Ask her to get treatment done on ure costs but she cant have the baby!!!

[Sara516]

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Lubna sounsd liek a scary woman! Raima tell Rubia to BE CAREFUL. THey may say no to her, but a desparate crazy woman will stop at nothing to get a baby... there've been women here who were pregnant, and attacked, their stomachs cut open because the attacker wanted the baby... tell her to be careful, do not go out alone, keep her kid in her sight at all times !!

[Sadaf]

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Oh my god!!!
That is highly insensitive of LUBNA to even think of an option like that.

gawwd!!!!
I am speechless.

[Kaleem]

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1-800-WOMBRENT or how about http://www.wombforrent.org/give_me_baby.html

[COCO]

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@shweetdreamz

You are right he wont do anything to harm her. She should NOT give up the baby in my opinion and it is very wrong for the lady Lubna to be asking someone for their baby. its one thing if rabia had made the offer herself to lubna. Why doesnt Lubna try adoption centers?

I think you have said it..why not adoption centers?

[Raatkirani]

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@Sara516

Lubna sounsd liek a scary woman! Raima tell Rubia to BE CAREFUL. THey may say no to her, but a desparate crazy woman will stop at nothing to get a baby... there've been women here who were pregnant, and attacked, their stomachs cut open because the attacker wanted the baby... tell her to be careful, do not go out alone, keep her kid in her sight at all times !!

Sara, you're absolutely right. Women like Lubna may even resort to kidnapping. Where are the rest of the family members to talk some sense into this Lubna character? This woman is being so selfish--what gall she has! Pakistanis and their crazy ideas.

My aunt couldn't have a baby, so she went to her husband's village in Pakistan, and found a family that had 7 daughters. This family was very poor and very overwhelmed at the prospect of raising and marrying off their girls that they happily gave their newborn daughter for adoption. As she grew up, the little girl was fully informed that she was adopted, but she loves her adopted parents so much that she has no desire to be with her blood family.

[Sara516]

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^ C thats a nice way of doing it.. Adoption is totally great and all (i honestly cant c the pitfalls/downfalls of it besides stupid pride) but urgh..

Raima, any update? :(

[nia_khan]

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i am not sure if i have a heart to give my child to someone else... even to my own sister or brother...

[Sara516]

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^ Agar shaadi mein toh phir? :p

[nia_khan]

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^
confused !!

[Rush]

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What is so wrong in giving up your child to your sister?

[Sara516]

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Rush, If shes demanding it??? I wud sure as hell NOT give up my kid to anyone no matter what!!

Nia, i meant if in marriage.. ya know.. cousin marriages.. it was a joke :halo:

[Rush]

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My sister in law asked for our child and we said yes but the child was baby boy and she was for a baby girl. Now my other cousin gave her child (baby girl). I asked only for my understanding.

[Sara516]

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Well.. thats ur personal choice to give up ur child.. I still think its wrong, at least hte way its described in the first post.

[bebo]

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I feel sorry for Lubna ,She wants to adopt her brother's child who already has a daughter and her wife is ok to have another one. Rubia should be more considerate.