The sad part is that the bride probably does not share her parent’s sentiments.
And this divide is where the problems begin…
If she questions their position she will be given the standard lecture of: we know better than you, you have no life experience yet, when you have your own daughter you will understand why we are insisting, you have yet to learn the ways of our society, you have to conform to the rules of our community, yada, yada, yada…