Re: How to handle the Haq Mehr situation
no strings attached…
make food, don’t torture with emotional black mail, and obviously be smoking HOT.
intellect and moral-mommy material not needed for that kind deal…i.e, speaking strictly in terms of Mehr-style purchase contracts.
but the point i was making there was, if girl or girl’s side are treating a gift as a transaction price, then i know much of the sincerity I want starting out is missing, and I can’t include that person as an honorable partner a caliber of my wife.
and if I were to treat it simply like a transaction, then i know what money can get on the market!