How to get over a rishta rejection?

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Re: How to get over a rishta rejection?

@Bobby1

Lack of self-awareness leads to devastating results on ones life, people should not over or underestimate their worth. We also should be pragmatic and a one hour talk session without any romance should not require any major recovery.

@Dubaiwali

^You are right, because ‘logically’ it shouldn’t. One thing you are forgetting, that not everyone is the same, that’s why there’s people who are under the impression that all love needs is one first look. Love at first sight. For some, that lasts a lifetime. I am not saying this is love here, I know this is only a connection and she thinks he could be the one, because she has dated men who were not the marrying type perhaps. If they were, she would have been married by now. Maybe she needs to keep looking. Putting all her eggs in one basket isn’t a good idea, especially when that basket has a hole in it, and those eggs will drop and crack wide open.

Thank you both for replying. Bobby1 I totally would have agreed with you before this, that 1 hour is not enough to feel this much but having gone into this and come out feeling as if everything has shifted is just unexplainable. Dubaiwali - thank you so much for your understanding. Eggs in basket example was smile worthy. There was most definitely a connection and he has gone and done the right thing for our futures by putting a lid on it now before we both reached points in our lives where our differences would cause trouble. I’ve got to thank him for that - this is the most bittersweet situation I have ever been in and I just feel I will most definitely hold it dear for some time now.