Hi ppl,
Yes yet another topic on the subject of finding the “one”. So how the beep do one find the one when u dont know anyone Ehem well I would like to know from all non-singles guys here how they found their better halfs. Only those who found the girl themselfs no arranged. Is it through college, work or friends? I know that there r alot of sweet decent intelligent and charming girls outthere..but how the heck do I come in contact with them??
Danish bhai, I saw this amazingly beautiful girl at university. She is every thing I want in a wife. Smart, amazing personality, fair, Pakistani, hint of brown hair (too bad its not fully brown, lol) but the only problem is she's kinda white washed. I am as traditional as they come. So the point is, I'm too chicken to go up to talk to her. Probably cause I grew up in such a conservative mahaul. Khair, one more year to go. Inshallah, something will happen.
Danish bhai, I saw this amazingly beautiful girl at university. She is every thing I want in a wife. Smart, amazing personality, fair, Pakistani, hint of brown hair (too bad its not fully brown, lol) but the only problem is she's kinda white washed. I am as traditional as they come. So the point is, I'm too chicken to go up to talk to her. Probably cause I grew up in such a conservative mahaul. Khair, one more year to go. Inshallah, something will happen.
You go to school/college/university everyday at the appropriate and promptly time in the morning, study hard for your studies, do your best in those examinations, and when the right times comes for you to put a ring on a finger of someone who you are going to love the most and live with for the rest of your life, leave it on the hands of the most experienced campaigners - your parent(s), to pick out that one individual.
Or else, one can keep trying out all the possible options until reached to a dead end. :)
You are in the right place to find the right girl so thank the lord for that first...then look around you..a friend of mine found a drop dead gorgeous scandinivian blonde from Denmark in Denmark..and he is not even goodlooking.I am assuming you are in Denmark if you are in Pakistan then I think you are wasting your time looking for love just ask your family to find someone for you.
Yup im in Denmark..its not excatly crowded with paki girls around here. And single girls, who are intelligent, humoristic, good hearted and charming well u can guess how rare they are. Oh well just wanted to know from u guys living in a european country how u found ur wifes/fiancees.
Yup guess I have to leave it up to parents who can find a girl through uncle/aunties and keep looking untill I find the right one. Finished uni a year ago, and no paki girls where i work. Oh well I guess im just dissapointed that its so difficult.
Any guy here born and raised in europe who has married a girl from pak? Does that go well? Isnt it difficult to merge the different mentalities?
hmmm first mae a list of preferences, then let ur parents work on it and in the meantime u can also try to look around urself. dont u have local shadi websites?try the internet. it worked for many...try out naseeb.com
i think internet can be usefull....just be very clear: what you like in a girl?? what are your future plans in life? , and stick to places (on interent) where girls sharing some interests can be found.....inshallah you'll meet the rare precious pearl you're looking for;)