How to end a relationship

[CM]

So ladies and gents how would you go about ending a relationship?

1. Its not you its me? Bull**** really.
2. Lie about dying or moving and never contact her again.
3. Ignore her? Flat out ignore her.
4. Actually move and never contact her again?
5. Just tell her point blank its her and break her heart?

Someone somewhere owes me big time for this.

[Azad]

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Aap ne mushkil kam ka pocha hay or mushkil kam hum se nahi hote.

[Azad]

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Ghat zehmat Na ho yeh to bat ate chalain. Aap ne mushkil tareen kam pehle kaise kar laiya? Relationship start kaise kiya?

[Ashy2010]

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If the relationship is marriage… better to divorce her rather than doing any of the things stated above

If it is only boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship, better to be upfront about the reasons for ending the relationship. No person is desperate enough in the world to beg you not to end the relationship.

[redvelvet]

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I vaguely remember you had once mentioned in a thread about finding a way to turn a girl off (through words/actions)…to the point that she ends the relationship herself. In other words, getting the girl to do the work for you…and (in a way) reduce the pain/preserve her ego because it would make it look as though the rejection came from her and not the guy. I’m surprised you haven’t listed this strategy.

^Or perhaps the above is an indirect variant of the “It’s not you, it’s me” strategy…and it’s implementation could possibly entail #3 and other actions to put her off. I am speaking in a general manner though.

[Safoora]

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It’s me, not you. Always works.

[pinkyy]

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@Ashy2010

If the relationship is marriage… better to divorce her rather than doing any of the things stated above

If it is only boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship, better to be upfront about the reasons for ending the relationship. No person is desperate enough in the world to beg you not to end the relationship.

Exactly!

So, you should give her reasons behind ending the relationship, and then just end it and move on, and so will she.

[KayZ]

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i will go for option 5 if i ever have to do it.

[webmister]

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I’ve heard its lot of fun dumping her in the meanest possible way.

[Sehrysh]

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@CM

So ladies and gents how would you go about ending a relationship?

1. Its not you its me? Bull**** really.

**This has become so cliched that most people who get dumped using this line, know it to be just that.
**
2. Lie about dying or moving and never contact her again.

**And if you someday bump into your ex again, then what?
**
3. Ignore her? Flat out ignore her.

What if she doesn’t ignore you? What if she calls/contacts or otherwise stalks you.

4. Actually move and never contact her again?

Who moves just to get away from an ex?

5. Just tell her point blank its her and break her heart?

**What if you’re too nice to break someone’s heart or the other person refuses to accept the truth?
**
Someone somewhere owes me big time for this.

In light of the above, what then?

[mama_ki_dua]

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Easy peasy! Offend them khud hi hat jayain ge and then don’t even apologise.

[BarbieCue]

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Simply change your relationship status on facebook.

[Gina]

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Classic:

“you deserve better…”

[goddamniamsoawesome]

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Been there, done that.

Straight up is the way to go.

[Cinnamonroll]

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Option 5. although some guys reveal themselves as psychos and will act like nothing happened

[canadiandesigirl]

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Option 5 but not in a cruel manner. Just let her know its over.

[PinkOrchids]

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I am no way affliated with this site LOL

[ll_xx_ll]

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you tell her/him you dont think you both are compatible with each other and therefore it would be better for both of you to move on

[Xtron]

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Sometimes it is not that easy ms. lxl especially if the couple have been in relationship for long. And when too much emotiaon involvement has been invested. Then what should we do??

[kakee]

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Guy: Im sorry. I just don’t feel the same way as I used to. You know this was going to happen sooner or later given how much we fight… I’m sorry. You deserve better.

Girl: B-But I love you! Don’t say that! You said we were meant to be!! Was that all a lie?

Guy: No, it wasn’t then but now.. I just don’t feel the same way.. I’m sorry.
Good bye.