Sometimes it is not that easy ms. lxl especially if the couple have been in relationship for long. And when too much emotiaon involvement has been invested. Then what should we do??
in that case even CM's 5 choices wont work...you have to cater your response to your situation....but the gist of it should be compatibility because usually thats why couples end things...now if its for another reason like ur parents not agreeing then your response should hinge on that....whatever it is you have to be truthful without causing the other person more pain than they already will be in when you break up with them
Guy: I am trying to re-learn my orientation. Give me some time please. Lifts his pinky when holds the glass.
Girl: I feel comfortable with girls only company. I am beginning to hate men.:D
The real/correct answer depends on how strong the relationship was and what has already been said. One takes off the discussion from one left off during last encounter. Weaker the relation, quicker can be the breakup and straightforward answer.
Stronger/longer the relationship was, gradual cut off is the best route. Intermittent ignoring/not responding will get the message across with less friction.
That is why once I said, always leave the room open to get out of relationship.
Say that your mommy got you engaged to her sisters kid and now you're stuck because kal niakaah hai.Or just avoid returning calls for a few days...then later call and tell you cannot be together anymore as you like someone else.,.that way they will hate you forever.