So..
There are lots of threads about dynamics, psychology, do’s and don’ts, tactics, strategies and all that stuff…
there are so many people to guide on that matter…some seem to have done Ph.D on the subject…
but nobody guides anything about Love marriage…there are a LOT of supporters of that idea…so i want
their input on this too…
HOW TO I GO ABOUT IT?? HOW TO DO A LOVE MARRIAGE?
Steps to follow, Strategies, Dangers, etc etc..
thank you.
Re: How to do a Love Marriage??
This is a broad sphere ofthought.
Maybe a book library could help someway.
Re: How to do a Love Marriage??
1)Step one, Fall in love
2)Step two, propose
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Oh Emm Geee your still a 40 yr old virgin.
Set up a profile on shadi.com dude
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^ i wants first hand advice from Life1 experts.......
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On a serious note:
Love is good. Though remember to keep your parents and friends informed about who you are seeing and what you are planning. Sometimes emotion can get us carried away therefore its always useful to get a second and rational opinions.
Compatibility is also important if this is going to be a lifelong relationhip.
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You don't choose love, it chooses you.
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Tell your mummy daddy that you want a lowe marriage...bass.
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you have to arrange a love marriage :)
this reminds me of Anwar Maqsood's interview. He was asked "aap ki marriage love arranged marriage thi ya love?" he said "ghar waley aaj tak yee samajtey hain k arranged thi" :)
Re: How to do a Love Marriage??
So..
There are lots of threads about dynamics, psychology, do's and don'ts, tactics, strategies and all that stuff......
there are so many people to guide on that matter.......some seem to have done Ph.D on the subject...
but nobody guides anything about Love marriage........there are a LOT of supporters of that idea....so i want
their input on this too.....
HOW TO I GO ABOUT IT?? HOW TO DO A LOVE MARRIAGE?
Steps to follow, Strategies, Dangers, etc etc..
thank you.
Single and Never had a relationship ? That reminds me of "40 years old virgin" :)
Re: How to do a Love Marriage??
"Love marriage" is an oxymoron.
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Marry the bollywood girl I tells ya.
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NomiCA, Apply what you have learnt about desi girls from Life1. Make an attractive CV and do mention that you won’t be asking your wife to live in joint family, you won’t be forbidding her from doing job, you will be an obedient husband, you won’t be financially supporting your parents, you will be severing all your ties from your family after marriage etc. You will attract innumerable desi girls and they will all FALL IN LOVE with you and you will have to consult us again which girl to choose for marriage 
On a serious note, Allah reham karay us bechari per jis ki qismat phootney wali hai Mind games, strategic planning, alternate plans, risk management, feedback and evaluation… all will be part of you plan since you learnt alot about desi girls thanks to Life1 
Re: How to do a Love Marriage??
Step 1: find a girl....
Step 2: Fall in love with her
Step 3: propose her.....
Step 4: tell your parents......
If you fail in step 3 repeat this process again and again until girl says YES :p
Re: How to do a Love Marriage??
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Mind games, strategic planning, alternate plans, risk management, feedback and evaluation... all will be part of you plan since you learnt alot about desi girls thanks to Life1
it reminds me management/marketing class.
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cutefifa has simplified the process. here is detailed process
Step 1: find a girl....
[ul]
[li]1.1: Spend Time[/li][li]1.2: Spend Money[/li][li]1.3: Spend Energy[/li][/ul]
Step 2: Fall in love with her
[ul]
[li]This should be easy as most of the guys who dont know how to do love marriage (read: NomiCA) fall in love with the first girl they find[/li][/ul]
Step 3: propose her.....
[ul]
[li]3.1: Spend Time[/li][li]3.2: Spend Money[/li][li]3.3: Spend Energy[/li][li]3.4: if she says NO, [/li][LIST]
[li] 3.4.1: Spend some more time...[/li][li] 3.4.2: Spend some more money...[/li][li] 3.4.3: Spend some more energy[/li][li] 3.4.4: if she still says no, time to go back to step-1, else continue[/li][/ul]
[/LIST]
Step 4: tell your parents......
[ul]
[li]4.1: Spend Time[/li][li]4.2: Spend Energy[/li][li]4.3: Risk lavish living on abba's expense[/li][li]4.4: Risk free yummy food[/li][li]4.5: If they say yes[/li][LIST]
[li]4.5.1: Make sure girl is still in love with you coz time it will take for parents to agree, she might have found someone else[/li][LIST]
[li]4.5.1.1 If girl is still in love with you, ask her to run step-4 on her parents[/li][LIST]
[li]4.5.1.1.1 if her parents says yes, marry her *****[/li][li] 4.5.1.1.2 if they say no, go to step one....again khajal ...khowar[/li][/ul]
[li] 4.5.1.2 if girls is no more in love with you, go to step one....again khajal ...khowar[/li][/LIST]
[/LIST]
[li]4.6 if you parents say NO, go to step one....again khajal ...khowar[/li][/LIST]
Note: There is only one success branch in this whole process mentioned in *****
Step 1: find a girl.... Step 2: Fall in love with her Step 3: propose her..... Step 4: tell your parents......
If you fail in step 3 repeat this process again and again until girl says YES :p
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^sucha complicated/negative approach to life. sad. : )
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Step 1: find a girl....
This should be easy as most of the guys who dont know how to do love marriage (read: NomiCA) fall in love with the first girl they find
please elaborate on those two points...
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^sucha complicated/negative approach to life. sad. : )
complicated? yeshhh, negative? no - but then life is not that simple eh? :)