How to deal with your own family?

[Bobby1]

Re: How to deal with your own family?

@lahore2nc

There are couple of instances where their behaviors cause stress in my life, but they don’t realize it. On the other hand, I feel like I am being a good child. Out of all their kids, I went to school got a professional degree and have good job. I bought the home for my parents too. It seems like my parents don’t understand how I am feeling and what I want. They still see me as 5 year old girl.
So what is the way to talk to them? I love my parents and everything. At the same time, I want them to understand me.

Just because someone is a parent does not automatically make them good or resectable, they re milking you for your money. I have seen that happen a lot. They put you down to control you. If you cant stand up for yourself nothing will change. When my boy stood toe to toe, nose to nose against me I growled like an ape but smiled in my heart that I raised a man who wont take chit even from his old man. Stand up to that lady and lay down the law for her. Siblings don’t count for chit, let her have it double barrelled.