How to deal with This Situation

[mahismart]

@mu2kan

The only thing is that what if he is lying and behaving good, but is not good… you know how people put a mask on before getting married and then their mask comes off once you are in a relationship???

Please Only tell me what to do smartly and secretly to find out about him, and when I get a chance to talk to him what kind of questions should I ask to make sure he is not lying. The biggest Problem is that I belive in what people say and I never doubt them unless I find something that I have seen or heard it my self.

mu2kan, you have too many doubts in this situation. It would really be best to clear them before plunging into the holy well of matrimony. No matter, how typical a Pakistani household is you really can talk to your mother about the things bothering you. I sure she’ll listen.

I thought the guy was here in Pakistan. If he is in States, can’t you hire someone to look him up for you? I don’t know how easy or difficult it is but if I had doubts in my mind about a guy I would definitely inquire.