No need to be hyper dear bcz i already mentioned in two words, “Technically maybe”… and it shows that i agree to you to some extent!! And the OP never said to answer her technically or islamically… so if u hv a choice to answer the question keeping in mind the TECHNICAL points…i m neither bound to discuss over the issue Islamically too!
Then reason y I was trying to make OP understand islamically is, we are Muslims.. and if things that are confusing us and putting us in stress have no solution then we might try to resolve it through islamically…
I am feeling bad for the OP…but if we dont make her understand that reality…it can put her in selfpity and thats not good… she can get herself into worthless fights and arguments with her inlaws.. having in mind… only i m right and jithani is totally wrong is not right. Thats why i was making her see the other side of the story..!!