how to deal with Saas and Jithani.

[Sweetmoi]

Re: how to deal with Saas and Jithani.

@Miea

My mother-in-law thinks that fighting with them over some plates isn’t really worth it. She also thinks that she does 80% of the housework anyway, so me or my husband shouldn’t really complain. I felt really hurt by hearing this.** I mean all you girls out there, you know we didn’t do that much when we lived with our parents**. I’m really trying here.

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LOL .. sorry I couldnt resist myself! .. This sentence of you is very much out there, just like you reasoning for wanting your SIL to clean up.

Apparantly you’ve had it relatively easy with your mother (please come meet mine, you’ll see the kinds things one can accomplish with full time studies on the side :D) .. But however, I dont think its right to demand your SIL to clean up. She doesnt live there. She is not obligated to do anything. Jis ka ghar, uske kaam. Live by this and you’ll find much peace .. and by ghar, please dont come and say its MIL and you’re living there temporary, for now this is your ghar as well .. clarified!.

Beside I dont think the workload is what is annoying you. I think the annoying thing is that she sits there and watch you and you sort of feel like a “servant” to her na?