how to deal with a closed mind.....

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Re: how to deal with a closed mind…

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Peace nadz123

Give your hubby a balanced response …

Yes in the UK there are legal nightclubs - in Pakistan there are illegal ones
Yes in the UK there is legal gambling and alcohol drinking - in Pakistan these are happening illegally
Yes in the UK there are indecent posters in places where our kids can see them - In Pakistan however everything that is wrong is hard to detect
In the UK we can make clear separation and our kids understand that this is done by non-Muslims we do not do that - In Pakistan however everyone is a Muslim the sinner and pious and it is harder for the kids to see the good from the bad.
Yes in Pakistani we are safe from being hurt by non-Muslims verbally and physically, but we are not even safe from our own people
In the UK we are safer from fraud and there is no load-shedding … In Pakistan we get good weather - the UK can be a bit drab - but it never bakes
In Pakistan we can be natural - but in the UK we learn to be better people through the sense of being ambassadors of our religion

TV here is TV there and TV there is TV here - because of the internet

There are masajid the UK - but there will not be the mother’s home
The UK has places like cinema and theme parks - but life can be too fast in the UK
The UK has no bazaar set-up and shops shut early - but there are places in the UK where it is half-decent
The UK has nice countrysides - but Pakistan has more space and it our land
The UK is less of a home but it is clean and no dust
Th UK is less noisy but sometimes uncomfortably silent

The UK is expensive … Pakistan has people with weapons - the UK weapons are hidden because they are not legal
The UK has lots of forms to fill and lots of paperwork to get things done - but at least things get done and there is no pushing in long queues …

add, In UK people like Zardari dont get eligibility of presidency.