I cannot control my thoughts. Especially evil ones. I always tend to think about something all of the times. That is why I cannot concentrate more on the particular thing that goes on.
Even right now I am daydreaming. Is it bad to daydream? I think it is really dangerous for our life. How to stop it? Especially at night? I mostly think at night and I want to stop that. Do you also think about something? If yes, when and how often?
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There is nothing wrong with day-dreaming, of course it shouldn't be your day-job :D. "Occasional" day dreaming might be okay, but persistence of is not good for your mental health as yourself indicated that you can't focus on current issue.
You can disregard oncoming thoughts/"day-dreams" by continuous vird of Astaghfar.
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Start fasting.
Re: How to control the thoughts? Please help me as I am in deep trouble.
Say La Hawla Wala Quwwata Illabillahil Alliyyil Azeem three times and spit over your left shoulder. According to a hadith, Allah then protects you from the Shaitan that is troubling you.
Try to say Ta’awwuz (Aoozubillah …) frequently.
Recite Ayatal Kursi.
Memorize versese and recite them.
Send durood on the beloved Prophet :saw:.
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All above are good.
Just think what's your schedule like. You gotta keep busy during the day. For me, I have school/work/relax(tv/internet) then on weekends go out with friends..etc also spend time with family.
You keep yourself busy the whole day, you will get tired and fall asleep faster and you will wake up fresh the next day. AllahuakbaR!
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Can you make it clear….what is your problem? ‘Uncontrolled thoughts’ or ‘daydreaming’?
‘Thought’ is a process of mind which is in fact totally free or independent of mind.
‘Daydreaming’ or ‘fantasy’ is a process that you do deliberately.
It is useless to pay much attention to or control thoughts, because they keep on changing.
Whereas ‘daydreaming’ is a kind of psycho-disorder, a minor one, that you have yourself developed.
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controlling your mind may turn your life into a luxury or diusaster. thinking should always be good and positive . a +ive minded person can also change the world
Re: How to control the thoughts? Please help me as I am in deep trouble.
Just think what's your schedule like. You gotta keep busy during the day. For me, I have school/work/relax(tv/internet) then on weekends go out with friends..etc also spend time with family.
You keep yourself busy the whole day, you will get tired and fall asleep faster and you will wake up fresh the next day. AllahuakbaR!
JazaKallah Khair everyone for replying. All activities are good but I would not prefer to relax because the most time I think in relaxing/before sleeping.
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Evil thoughts?????????????? such as???????
As for fantasies, daydreaming etc be proud you have the mind to do so!! Some can't even think let alone day dream.
Write a journal , a book. Dreaming, fantasies, and thoughts have lead to creativity in culture, arts, theatre, music, literature, poems. Unleash you mind for Allah gave it to you.
Unless ofcourse you are hearing voices or thinking of robbing, killing etc than seek immediate psychiatric help!!
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A healthy diversion is needed, like Poetry and or Music that helps you relax, switch off your NEGATIVE thoughts by concentrating on all that is beautiful in your surroundings, Have you ever looked at the Flame of a burning candle at night?
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What's he thinking about if he say its evil? Is he daydreaming of arson? Then you suggestion might be flaming his passion.:)
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Anyone ever feel like their mind will just NOT SHUT UP 
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uberalles!
You left out the Music & poetry, or may be if he listens to "Dia Jalow---Jug Mug, Jug Mug-- Dia Jalow!"
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Even right now I am daydreaming. Is it bad to daydream? I think it is really dangerous for our life. How to stop it? Especially at night? I mostly think at night and I want to stop that. Do you also think about something? If yes, when and how often?
get married or start fasting
read the quran, read up on punishment of the grave and torments of hellfire.. shud get you to stop thinking evil thoughts inshaAllah and if not then you seriously got a problem with your imaan
read tahajjud if u cant sleep, and remember make dua to Allah to ask Him to help you and to make you stop daydreaming and thinking about evil thoughts
read them dua's you get in the dua books (with meaning) read dua number 123 with sincerity
Allahumma rahmataka arjoo falaa takilnee ilaa nafsee tarfata 'ainin wa aslih lee sha'nee kullahu laa ilaaha illa anta
oh Allah i hope for your mercy. Do not leave me to myself even for the blinking of an eye, correct all my affairs for me.. there in none worthy of worship except You (abu dawud, ahmad.. albani said its sahih)
fortress of the muslim.. google it. i cant paste the link
may Allah make things easy for you inshaAllah
wassalam
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Kindy read daily after Fajar & maghrib prayers with Jammat in Masjid, 40 forty times each {surat "FALAQ" & surat "ANNAS"} last two suraa's of QURAN, if you remember the meening, it will be more better and be punctual daily for the 5 times praying, 5 Times Namaz is "FARZ" compulsory, in our Islam.
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SuperMe this is perfectly normal ,whoever is telling u to get rid of evil thoughts by turning ur self to religion or think positive or do bla blah blah..these folks needs to understand that a mind cannot control or hold back ur thoughts because its impossible ,a mind can control ur actions not ur thoughts. I think about stuff all the time cuz its natural every part of ur body has been assigned something such as a eyes are to see the beauty of nature ears to hear and nose to smell or SNORE:clown: …so ur brain is to think and understand thats why there are thoughts…u get wat im saying.
and if ur still getting too frustrated over piles n piles of thoughts then u shud play a strategy game that’ll keep ur mind busy simple or talk to someone.
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Religion is better than a strategy game. That’s all I will say for now.
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As far as i know religion only scares u from every single thing u do even thoughts then how come religion should be the source for getting rid of thoughts. After turning to religion a person will get more thoughts ,thoughts thoughts n thoughts. Religion shud not be used for every single thing. Come on Be real !
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Listen, you should try it, try new things.
How will you get thoughts when you are busy doing something? Tell me.................
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Listen, you should try it, try new things.
How will you get thoughts when you are busy doing something? Tell me................./quote]
Ur 100 % correct on ur statement...
But u should use it for **ur self .**
Yes try new things other than religion. :) May be tha'll help