How to control the thoughts? Please help me as I am in deep trouble.

[cricketplaya]

Re: How to control the thoughts? Please help me as I am in deep trouble.

@muali

[quote=cricketplaya] Listen, you should try it, try new things.

How will you get thoughts when you are busy doing something? Tell me................./quote]

Ur 100 % correct on ur statement... But u should use it for **ur self .** Yes try new things other than religion. :) May be tha'll help

I don't need to because Islam has everything!!!! Owned you or what?!!

[muali]

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@cricketplaya

[quote=muali]

I don't need to because Islam has everything!!!! Owned you or what?!!

Freedom of speech and i respect it, u have ur **opinion* i have mine ,u can't change mine i can't change ur's*
*Good day:) *

[cricketplaya]

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@muali

[quote=cricketplaya]

Freedom of speech and i respect it, u have ur **opinion* i have mine ,u can't change mine i can't change ur's* *Good day:) *

Good day mate!

I coudn't resist saying 'mate'- I am not aussie!

[Captain1]

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@muali

As far as i know religion only scares u from every single thing u do even thoughts then how come religion should be the source for getting rid of thoughts. After turning to religion a person will get more thoughts ,thoughts thoughts n thoughts. Religion shud not be used for every single thing. Come on Be real !

May be you only read scaring books about religion :)

Religion is not the only source for "thoughts and thoughts and thoughts", even man made laws lead you to "thoughts and thoughts and thoughts". Some people give religion higher priority then be so it, why do you have issue with that?

Also, there are different kinds of thoughts, some can be fruitful some can lead to just wasting time without gaining anything out of those thoughts.

[SuperMe]

Re: How to control the thoughts? Please help me as I am in deep trouble.

Also I heard this statement from Islam. I do not exactly know from where. "Abstain from evil thoughts because evil thoughts bring evil actions".

[uberalles]

Re: How to control the thoughts? Please help me as I am in deep trouble.

@cricketplaya

Listen, you should try it, try new things.

How will you get thoughts when you are busy doing something? Tell me.................

You just proved the point you can have thoughts when busy doing something.

*You were busy on the keyboard of your computer while you got thoughts to post. *

[SuperMe]

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@uberalles

You just proved the point you can have thoughts when busy doing something.

*You were busy on the keyboard of your computer while you got thoughts to post. *

Good comment but my meaning is thinking about something else while doing the particular thing. Like you are working on a computer and your thoughts going on something old events that happened before or thinking about something else than working.

[Ashmeet]

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@SuperMe

I cannot control my thoughts. Especially evil ones. I always tend to think about something all of the times. That is why I cannot concentrate more on the particular thing that goes on.

Even right now I am daydreaming. Is it bad to daydream? I think it is really dangerous for our life. How to stop it? Especially at night? I mostly think at night and I want to stop that. Do you also think about something? If yes, when and how often?

Hi super me,

Firstly,there is nothing wrong that you day dream,you can control your thoughts which are going into your mind with the help of yoga{yoga focuses harmony between mind and soul,its just to strike a balance between mind and soul, willl increase your focussing power,mydear friend )} (provided if you really wanna do that )wake up in the morning,sit in a place ,where you feel comfertable(for all this to happen)you need energy(will power)that GOD has gifted you when you come to this earth,use that gift by GOD.
well great suggestions have been given to you by people who come in here,try to focus your mind on one subject at a time,DO things that make you happy,if u can do things that make someone happy(help somebody),then whats better than that. )

let me tell you something about THOUGHTS,
thought is a powerful gift that god has given us,if you keep on imagining all the time,well we all do that nuthin wrong in that(always be happy ,do things that make you feel comfertable,happy ) as someone replied to ur post ,stay busy all the time,shud not stay idle ,always keep on doing something in life…,this way u will not get time to imagine evil things (stay focused).Imagination is just a collection of focused thoughs that creates a reality in mind.Everything you do in life,feel proud, always believe in yourself,keep on motivating youself(reading some motivating quotes…) ,whenever you feell low,or ur depressed don’t loose ur heart… keep on fighting …

At last— focus-------------------------------------- is the word that will make you reach at the top…
respect your elders

dukh wele ardas
sukh wele shukrana
har wele simran…

[fallenpieta]

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I must make a confession: I also have these evil thoughts about sending E-mail bombs to certain people on gupshup. Is it a sin to have such thoughts?

[rais_khan]

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@fallenpieta

I must make a confession: I also have these evil thoughts about sending E-mail bombs to certain people on gupshup. Is it a sin to have such thoughts?

The Gentleman is seeking advice from you guys I have gone through replies it seems that you have confused him more.
I think if u don,t have good advice then I suggest let him talk to his parents openly.
I am sure they shall have better solution/advice for him then us:confused:

[picoico]

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@Sara516

Anyone ever feel like their mind will just NOT SHUT UP

Before going to sleep, yes. It’s annoying as hell…

[narayan]

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Practice Yoga and meditation. Scientifically it works. You will see the difference in time.

[picoico]

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@narayan

Practice Yoga and meditation. Scientifically it works. You will see the difference in time.

Xanax is better...

[SuperMe]

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Isn't practicing Yoga for Hindu?

[narayan]

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Yoga and meditation are for all human being. They are exercises for body and mind. They would do good for sure. But learn from a good teacher.

[fallenpieta]

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@picoico

Before going to sleep, yes. It’s annoying as hell…

Now I feel better about the voices in my head.

[expatobserver]

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Why don't you start something good for the world? When I am waiting for my bus going to work, I don't just day-dream. I pick up all the garbage that people throw around the bus stop. By the time bus comes, I have cleaned the bus stop. I do this every day. People look at me like I am some weirdo but at least I have no time to have evil thoughts.

[crown2005]

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to controll evil thoughts or useless thoughts u should say auzibillahi minashaitani amantu bilahi wa rasullihi .i will soon send u a hadis on this inshallaj. and on more thing ,u know why u cant concentrate on things it is given that the way u pray is the way u stay.try to concentra on ur prayer .pray with ful faith and concentration and leave the else to allah coz if u do his work with concentration he will make u do ur work with concentration inshallah.
and about the yoga thing its for hindus not for us for us we have our namaz in which u should concentrate.inshallah u will be free from this problem