how to condition yoyrself?

[hareem01]

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[ABC1111]

Re: how to condition yoyrself?

baba baba blac sheep

[hareem01]

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[nadz123]

Re: how to condition yoyrself?

I understand what you mean.its hard, harder for women, i never ever used to rely on anyone, but after marriage, have no idea what hit me. became emotionally attached to husband. and you all know. so erm, i dont know really. i would like to know as well, however i feel i am less emotionally attached now, i dont cry as easily, i may have the same issues i did a year ago, but no tears like before, so maybe i didnt realise, but maybe im abit stronger now? OR just immune.

[hareem01]

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[Decent_6Chora]

Re: how to condition yoyrself?

Hareem, its OK to count on a person or two (specially spouse) and be a person that other person (or two) can count on.

and on blushing part, you cant control other people's eyes, as long as you are not ;) back, you are fine. Just make sure when you are out on walk you do not wear red cloths coz phir blushing main pata nahi chaley ga k where your face is.....

[hareem01]

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[hareem01]

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[Decent_6Chora]

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@hareem01

Of course I can count on him but this need of talking it out…he just doesn’t listen to my ramblings. He doesn’t even look at me. And when I complain he doesn’t even notice.

may be he understands you without you even opening your mouth. Some men (including myself to some extent), can hear their SO without them speaking it out…

@hareem01

I sound so childish complaining about it but I don’t want this marriage to end…and I don’t wanna hide my feelings or thoughts from him.

yes yes, do not hide. PM me all your feelings and thoughts :sid:

[hareem01]

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[queer]

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@hareem01

Uff is this cheating? Am I cheating on him by blushing because a stranger on the road was staring at me? I have never done that before…

:o

[Decent_6Chora]

Re: how to condition yoyrself?

So may be I should keep my mouth shut? I don't watch dramas on tv so I have more needs than a normal woman's.** I want to talk and I want him to agree with what I say**. Oh and plenty of eye contact.

He only talks about the ahmadi threads and other gs threads. And then he says I complain about him being boring.

What he never talk about my threads :(
Time to commit suicide.

and red is every girl's dream

[hareem01]

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[nadz123]

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are you serious.whose your husband??and if you are serious, i know what you mean,. sometime il have an issue, for me itl be the biggest drama in the world, atleast my husband should hug it out of me, or atleast patiently listen. hel have one eye on the cricket and one ear to me....and hel hmm hmmmhis way through myramblings`.....but hes a decent good loving husband.and so is urs.

[queer]

Re: how to condition yoyrself?

why do you want him to leave gs?! naheeeee!

[hareem01]

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[nadz123]

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are you ok?

[hareem01]

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are you ok?

thanks for asking matey. no one has asked me this question since i don't know how long? :-(

[partyslims]

Re: how to condition yoyrself?

If you have no friends or family or any type of support system, it can be pretty brutal. The need for adult interaction is quite crucial. I hope things get better for you.

[njgal]

Re: how to condition yoyrself?

can't JUST rely on your spouse for all the emotional support. It's time to invest in creating a good support system.

what about friends? sister? cousins? parents? co workers? neighbors etc.