Re: How to break the news
i think by hiding such a big fact upfront and then the spouse finding after marriage is a bigger problem then facing a rejection upfront by telling, wat i mean by dat is key if you mention wat has happened upfront then its upto the person if they wanna go ahead i know its going to be tough but then again it will make your future as well as your present happy, but if you hide it now you will always have this guilt and fear key someday your spouse will find out and **** will hit the ceiling, wat then, rejection mein to yeh hoga key kuch honay sey pehlay hee aar ya paar ho jaayega and then u can say EK NAHI TO KOI AUR SAHEE KOI AUR NAHI TO KOI AUR SAHEE or somin like dat. :D