Re: How to become
Don’t fear being disliked. Talk to the person, and if s/he does dislike you, then it’s that persons loss. I usually cut off all ties with such a person - if s/he wants to judge me, then fine - I don’t care - upwards and onwards for me.
Not everyone you talk to will understand you, like you or not judge you - people do this all the time, even if it is subconsciously.
If you never talk to new people, you will never find out what they think of you.