Re: How to be indifferent?
Yup, it’s funny. Well, my clients/training is more to do with disorders not this BS I am in. I don’t know man, I don’t know why I can’t speak up. I think…as one of the couple times, when I did say something, MIL started tantrums and hubby “blamed” me that I can’t be patient or don’t know how to deal with it, and should suck it up because it’s causing differences between us. He told me “you shouldn’t have said that” and argued. So, now I don’t say anything thinking that it’ll cause a lot of disturbance between hubby and I…I fear he’ll get frustrated with me and avoid me? He’s never gonna tell them to get better bcoz he said he can’t mold their personality or nature now.
It’s sad that no matter what his family does, he’s still theirs and they don’t “fear” they’ll lose him, because it’ll never happen. And, it’s sad that I have to think every time before I speak so nothing comes out of my mouth which will cause arguments between hubby and I, and so that he doesn’t start to “dislike” me 