Re: How to Balance between Mother and Wife?
TS what is aaloo if not vegetable?
My mom makes bhindi by making seperately Karahi like masala and separately frying bhindis before adding to masala. After that she cooks for ten minutes. She also adds salt in bhindis while frying. This version is also very tasty. I learned from her last week. Hope she let’s me cook next time.
I can tell how thankful OP must be as not only did he receive advice to his original problem but also recipes of home made aaloo, bhindi and remedy for PMSing 
Am so sleepy now.
Have fun 
Later