What is with these personal comments? In your own words, it must be “family / culture”.
Is it your “culture”? Surely it can’t be. Since the majority here are very polite.
So it must be your “family”. Where they teach you to call those who don’t agree with you “complete idiots”.
As far as my being a “bania” is concerned, it doesn’t matter what my “culture” or “family” background is. Stop speculating was the jist of my message - in case you didn’t understand. The way you are bending over backwards to come up with multiple scenarios to justify immature and potentially damaging conduct does no one any good. IMHO.