Re: How to avoid spending time with the in-laws
why being cautious or nice to them is termed as Bahu Show? if you are calling it a SHOW then does that mean your intentions within your heart are different then what you show to them on the face?
i don’t see it only relates to in-laws. i think we have to conform to different situations/atmosphere and behave accordingly.
like i can yell at the top of my lungs while i am in some kind of argument with my brother but i do not do behave this way when i disagree on anything with my dad. does this mean i am putting up a show in front of my dad? Certainly Not.
At home i always work on my laptop while lying down on the couch will i do this in my office? NO. why? because i have to conform to the particular standard and environment at office but this doesn’t mean that i am not being ME when i am in office.
as mature people and adults we must understand and be able to conform peacefully to the set standards of each different set-up and situation but this doesn’t reflect that we are putting up any kind of a show or we are not just being ourselves.