How Romantic Are You?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Alright girls. What do you say when your rishta potential asks you THIS question.

I’ve noticed a common trend now among guys…

:halo:

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I say "what do you mean by that? please be specific"

This usually has them digging their own grave in a few minutes.

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I am sure i wll be shocked to the point that i wouldn’t be able to say much, but might just give him a slap across his face :smack:.

…Oh wait! it also depends on how this question is asked/worded! :snooty: like if somebody says so what kind of a peron r u, do u like goin for candle light dinner etc etc etc or do you like to travel? go out? …i think questions like these can give you an idea if the person is romantic or not. You don’t have to be so direct asking this. And again, what point of the rishta process you ask this question also matters. If its the first time you are meeting/talking then i would find it really odd and would definatey be tempted to slap him :halo:.

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So when I first got asked these questions, back in the day, I thought that’s what they mean too Zareen, so I told one guy I remember, well I think a nice walk on the beach would be romantic. He was totally confused, and then kept repeating, no no, how ROMANTIC would you be? I’m like, I just told you, ya twit, a nice walk on the beach is romantic. And then he says “ok well what would we do on the beach?” :smack:

I have quickly learned that is NOT what these kids are talking about these days, when they say “romantic”.

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LOL. Really? What did you say to him?

Gosh this is the extreme, how can anyone ask such offensive questions? do they really think anyone at all would entertain such questions :confused:.

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such question is not only odd but also annoying and questioneir deserves a hard slap on face.

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This is where 'How to lose a guy in 10 days' comes in handy :D

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Kids. What else do you expect from them?

I've gotta be curious to ask, where exactly do you meet such kids who don't give a rats bum before they ask how 'romantic' you are in bed? Geez pyaari!

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It's these online dating websites. i have no other way to meet guys! I can't make these speed dating events, and family doesn't know anyone, and boy number 2 was my last hope and he wont have me. So there we go.

I'm seeking love in the cesspool of God awfuls.

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PCG. Stop looking for him! Sometimes when we are desperately looking for something or wanting something, it just keeps running far away from us. I don’t know why but it does happen. So take a break and let life roll on its own, just a short break though! :chai:

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I have to agree with ZK. I stopped looking (marriage has always been the last thing on my mind to be honest, I find it difficult to deal with men in general aside from family/SO) and he found me! :wub:

The more I search and yearn for something (not necessarily in terms of getting married)- the further it goes away from me.

p.s. i’ve never been asked how romantic I am, would probably show them the chappals :smack:

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My first reaction was that this is a very fruity kind of question for a guy to ask, but judging by the responses here, I guess the question has a subtext :hehe:

If a guy has to ask this, then he’s a dud. You don’t ask her, you show her (provided you’re married and all that) and she’ll come along.

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sighz

Easier said than done, but yeah, you’re right, I just have to focus on other things.

Haha, what’s fun is a 24 yr ol kid likes me - he can’t stop texting. Jeez. Poor kid. I keep telling him. He looks like JAFRI’S AGE.

:smack:

How much am I gonna rock the cradle. HOW MUCH am I gonna rock the cradle. At some point, isn’t there a law about this??

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It is vague and awful because romance is tied down to sexual intimacy. I find romance in little things like candle light dinners, beautiful hot spot, and heart-to-heart conversations!

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when me and my hubby used to talk before our marriage, he never needed to ask “how romantic are you”… instead… he always said, “romance ke ilawa bhi kuch soojhta hay tumhe?” :lol :cb:

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you are right, guys mostly make mistakes in defining romance! they think, only physical intimacy is romance!

I remember, once when I visited my susral before my marriage on request of my inlaws.. the time when I was saying goodbye to them, my hubby plucked a flower instantly from his garden and presented it to me infront of his father… I was like all blushed and confused and nervous and what all a girl can feel infront of her father in-law, it was very romantic though, Later I spoke about it to him and he was all cool and told, his father is a very jolly person! and he is :@:

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so what if the guy wants to know whether he is marrying a brick or a warm-blooded human being...

also if you forgot, vehshi-libido girls are liked more..

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so what? clearly we see who is using these lines on their dates. :rolleyes:

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LOL.

crazy guy from past who I met in an arranged setting would always get angry that I'd dodge his mushy questions/over the top compliments and change the subject. So one day he's like "you know affection is really important to me, so if you're not okay with being romantic, maybe we shouldn't be together".
W...T...H...

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How ROMANTIC!!! I wish my hubby can do the same :p