I was just pondering how you rate your jealousy in the sense where your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend is being flirted to, or is flirting with someone. Where do you draw the line? How do you deal with it? What’s your immidiate reaction? say you are in the mall or at your neighborhood food mart.
On the scale of 1 to 10 how jealous are you?
Mods: Please change the topic of this thread to: Rate your jealousy..
Matty, we are not talking trust here, we are talking about what if. Most couples do trust each other until one of them is caught cheating. We are talking about Jerry Springer not Oprah here.
yeah matsui. I only deal with Oprah like issues. Gabru covers Springer.
Anyway, back on topic, if you feel secure enough and have enough faith/trust in your partner, harmless/friendly/joking around kinda flirting would not be a big deal .... at least to me.
I agree with Mehnaz. First if the other person is flirting and not my guy I wouldn;t be as offended. Now if he is going a step ahead in responding then that would be a red flag. Any retaliation at a mediocre level is fine. If he goes around flirting with others and makes a habit of it then he'll get kicked.