its amazing how one changes when they are in love or are loved. Not their morals or ideas.. but i guess their perception on life, their dressing styles.. one starts to care more about their appearance.. wierd ya know..
I always knew it was nice to be appreciated and loved… but to loved and respected by someone you are gonna share ur life with is a completely different thing. You automatically start feeling beautiful ..yeah i know, some people may call it being proud but i think theres a difference.. when ur in love and feeling good about yourself, its a very positive feeling.. it gives u the confidence to be just urself and noone else.. (having trouble explaining)
PCG and others may puke at this… but honestly, u feel like doing things to make the other person happy, pleased and feel loved.. u uncosciencly start to dress to please them (in a legal and clean way that is)..
your post reminded me of something one of my friends used to say to me. she said that if you see a girl who suddenly seems to spend more time on her appearance, she must be in love.
Majestic, I knew you’d understand. Yeah, i care so much more about my appearance now. It’s not cus I want to make an effort.. its just cus i feel like it. Something inside me wants to look pretty all the time… and yeah i feel like a million bucks when he’s around..
larki, is that so? hmm interesting… that explains my sudden change
Sara, u can look pretty for anyone What im trying to say is that once you are in love or are being loved, u unconsciencly have this desire to look pretty… maybe not for them or hmm just for them, i dont know.. its just a feeling you get.
Before I met him, I tried or attempted to look pretty.. like dressed up and stuff.. but the feeling was completely different. It was more like "Geez!! ive got a party to go to.. i should try to look hot… ".. and now its like “man i feel hot..” just kidding.. im talking nonsense
as Mehnaz said, focus on urself.. build the confidence
I look pretty for myself all the time, and I wouldn’t change my style of dressing for a guy. I never feel guilty or “agghhhh I have to get dressed”, getting ready for parties is half hte fun :). But I just wanna be in love, or better yet have the feeling returned.
What im trying to say is that once you are in love or are being loved, u unconsciencly have this desire to look pretty… maybe not for them or hmm just for them, i dont know.. its just a feeling you get.
just kidding.. im talking nonsense
