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hellojello:
Plus after the initial excitement stage we decided it’s not good to talk TOO much because then you develop this relationship over technology which is completely different from real life. Then when you’re actually married it’s a huge reality check and you keep comparing back to how things were when you were engaged, which can make things difficult because maintaing a relationship over phone/internet is much easier than in real life. That being said, it’s so hard to keep the talking to a minimum!!
You know what…that’s really insightful!! Thanks.
I agree with you, I have friends that recently got married, and they keep telling me how its not the same feeling when we were engaged…he doesn’t talk to me as much and this and that!
So you made a great point, and yes it is hard to keep talking to a min lol, but talking too much can in a sense give you unrealistic expectations, and your right its completely different in real life…
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So how are you getting over the shyness?? I need tips!!
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I’ll let you know when I get engaged again InshAllah soon
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OMG!! Sorry but…How in the world did… the signature..'**The Most Beautiful Woman On Earth is Aishwarya Rai" and “aish meri jaan ”…NOT give away his **gender!!!
P.S. can’t blame you that much… lot of gay threads all over life 1 these days
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i’m sorry… or shall I say good riddance from him??
NomiCA
February 10, 2011, 5:55pm
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…yeah…as they say…homo love is in the air
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OMG!! Sorry but…How in the world did… the signature..'**The Most Beautiful Woman On Earth is Aishwarya Rai" and “aish meri jaan ”…NOT give away his **gender!!!
P.S. can’t blame you that much… lot of gay threads all over life 1 these days
actually i think it’s cuz of the avatar, not many males on gs put a female avatar unless it’s for a joke
Now that I know, I thinks it’s pretty cool
yes well that works both ways actually was never meant to be
rizla86
February 11, 2011, 12:32am
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WTF blessed2006 is a guy?
On second thought this makes so much more sense.
Guac
February 11, 2011, 1:50am
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Off topic…but I’m also kind of shocked that blessed2006 is a guy
STA
February 11, 2011, 2:01am
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is she he???
or is he she??
i m
arshad5
February 11, 2011, 2:01am
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I speak to her for about an hour each morning as she wakes me up with her call or sends me a message and I call her back. Then during the day we may talk to each other again for about 15 minutes about twice during the rest of the day. Then we also send sms to each other sometimes a few times a day or foward poems or quotes to each other.
LP
February 11, 2011, 2:02am
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awwww…
congratzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz u r engaged
u ne party nahi dee
STA
February 11, 2011, 2:09am
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LP: bachon ka iss thread main ana mana hai.
app cafe gup shup ko use karain.
abhi appki age itni nahi hai kay life 1 kay chakkar lagain…
arshad5
February 11, 2011, 2:11am
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Oh thanks
I am keeping a low profile so no party planned yet…but will send you an invite when I arrange one
LP
February 11, 2011, 9:38am
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im older than u think
sirf treat se bhi kaam cal jata :hinna:
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bridezilla12:
talk to your fiancee in a day…using any sort of communication method…whether it be texting, phone call, skype or msn…
If it’s an arranged marriage what do you talk about…cause there still might be that akward feeling of not knowing each other 100%.
How do you get over the shyness?
Well I talked my fiancee a total of 1 time, after which we decided to go ahead with the engagement.
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Wow, so FS…what made you decide to go ahead with it, after one conversation?
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I think with time and also with varying the mode of communication the shyness will lessen. It’s good to have some space as well.