How often do you...

talk to your fiancee in a day…using any sort of communication method…whether it be texting, phone call, skype or msn…

If it’s an arranged marriage what do you talk about…cause there still might be that akward feeling of not knowing each other 100%.

How do you get over the shyness?

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I talk to her everyday... atleast one email and few txts... and talk to her over the phone 2-4 times in a week...

it was a bit formal in the start but after couple of talks we became really good friends and now we can talk about anything... guess you will have to give her a bit of level of comfort and the day she will develop the trust she will be out of her comfort zone :)

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and to add ... our engagement was arranged... and saw her first time on the day of engagement coz we were not in the same cities... so it doesn't matter if it is arranged... you can still build a great friendship... being friends is a start of a stronger relation..

we are getting married soon and we have talked about lot of stuff and planned things together... so probably lets just start with being good friends

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i talk to her once a year. She is in a maximum security prison, so I don't have much of a choice. But it is true love!

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Look, the nurse that has to give u your loony pills/shots doesn't count. Mmmkay?

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Na ji - My mama says ’ Strictly no chatting before wedding , it doesn’t happen like that in our families ’ ! :teary2:

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O GOD I cAnt wait to talk to my fianceee :D:D:D:D::D:D

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^you're kidding right... you found your one?! How? and I'm still single!!! :( ...I better go read your thread thoroughly for tips.

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hahahah actually mom kind of helped me out :P (but baat abi paki nahei hui) :D

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^awww... well still congrats :)... Allah wohi karay jo aap k liye behtar ho Ameen.

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aww sho shweeet..shukrannn...u will be remmemberd in my prayersss :) aap ke liay be dua kerti hoon

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:lifey:

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text most days and speak maybe once a week.... but it's still awkward sometimes, and the conversation runs dry quite quickly! so any suggestions for topics....?

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We actually talk on the phone a couple time of the week the same goes with msn but we communicate by pictures a lot like if I am out I will mail him a picture of what I am doing or eating or if I see something interresting or funny I will take a picture and send it to him and he does the same this way we keep in touch every day even if we dont have time to chat or talk over the phone and having Iphone helps a lot lol

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talk about ur wedding how u guys or plan ur honeymoon trip
talk about ur day about school or work
talk about ur future, ur dreams what u guys want to become or do what ur goals are etc
talk about a movie or a book and even games
talk about religion
talk about and the list go on and on hehe

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Oh god before getting married, we spoke like at least 2 hours a day...some days we had 5-7 hour phone convos...omgsh hum kitnay welay tay.

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^^Yeah I don’t get that, how can you constantly talk to someone for that long? Don’t you run out of things to talk about?

Once a year? :eek: I sure hope your visit is the conjugal kind.

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You know even I can’t remember what we talked about and I can’t believe we had that much faltoo time :hayaa: but yeah anything and everything under the sun :hehe:

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poop

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We email a few times a week....I'm way too shy to talk over the phone...idk why but I just can't get over my shyness :@:
We're still at that slightly formal stage...although we do have a laugh and joke sometimes...we're slowly getting there lol