How much Jahaiz?

Re: How much Jahaiz?

I've witnessed a scenerio where my khala bought gold karas for her daughter's saas even though she had specifically stated that they don't want anything. Well guess what, when the karas were presented to her, she lived up to her word and said you gave me your daughter, that is more than enough.
People say they don't want anything but take it when it's given. People KNOW that the girl's side is preparing gifts and they keep their mouth shut. If they really meant it, they would denounce it. All talk and no action is what keeps this tradition going.

Can't agree more. Jst saying that we want nothing and 'whatever u wud give, u wud give to your daughter' is actually asking for it... and it tells that they are expecting you wud give your daughter something. If they actually never wanted a thing, why they do not return the trucks of furniture that arrive at their place? they never do...

couldnt agree more.