Thanks for so many replies and I was searching at GS if there was a topic on Jahaiz but was shocked to find no one discussed such a major issue. Spiral I would only have a room to myself not even my own kitchen forget the whole floor. It would be like the way we live with our parents, kids in their bedrooms, parents in the master bed and the big kitchen lounge etc all downstairs, they have this house built only a yr ago and furnished it all… so tell me what is practical to take there?
Also as teelobhain asked I dont know wat to think… My Inlaws did not say NO to dowry but did not demand anything either… plus they said we dont have much storage… but whenever I tell my fiance that do you think i shud buy this? or that? he never says ‘NO dont,No need!’ he just says ‘daikh lo, If u wish to or that would be nice’… that confuses me
That just means the guy must be hearing from his mother that you do at least take something with you…but not necessarily a truck load of stuff i guess…