Re: How much Jahaiz?
My cousin moved to Canada from Khi after her shadi and her mom and dad asked us to look around and give them an estimate for bedroom furniture. Word got around and her in-laws invited my parents for tea and told them that they plan on buying the bedroom furniture and there is no need for them to look around. At first my parents thought they were fulfilling a formality but after a lengthy discussion they figured that there is no point, if we gave them furniture...they were pretty much offended.
A few days later they e-mailed a couple of samples to my cousin and asked her to choose since it was HER room. It was very pleasant to see that. Her in-laws set a wonderful example or everyone around them.