Thanks for so many replies and I was searching at GS if there was a topic on Jahaiz but was shocked to find no one discussed such a major issue. Spiral I would only have a room to myself not even my own kitchen forget the whole floor. It would be like the way we live with our parents, kids in their bedrooms, parents in the master bed and the big kitchen lounge etc all downstairs, they have this house built only a yr ago and furnished it all.... so tell me what is practical to take there?
Also as teelobhain asked I dont know wat to think... My Inlaws did not say NO to dowry but did not demand anything either... plus they said we dont have much storage... but whenever I tell my fiance that do you think i shud buy this? or that? he never says 'NO dont,No need!' he just says 'daikh lo, If u wish to or that would be nice'.... that confuses me
my inlaws are just the same, but my finace strongly opposes the idea of getting stuff for my self, even if i tell him i want to have an ivory lamp for my bedroom and a black and white theme, he just wont appreciate the thought of my parents buying my so much stuff.
i will be living in pakistan for the rest of my life IA, even then i know it will be very hard to buy stuff for my wedding. as my inlaws esp my husband-to-be wont let me buy anything and my daddy keeps on insisting and adding things to the list :p
lets see what happens, because they too dont have any space left in the house with two BIL already married (mA)