my inlaws are just the same, but my finace strongly opposes the idea of getting stuff for my self, even if i tell him i want to have an ivory lamp for my bedroom and a black and white theme, he just wont appreciate the thought of my parents buying my so much stuff.
i will be living in pakistan for the rest of my life IA, even then i know it will be very hard to buy stuff for my wedding. as my inlaws esp my husband-to-be wont let me buy anything and my daddy keeps on insisting and adding things to the list
lets see what happens, because they too dont have any space left in the house with two BIL already married (mA)