Hi everyone…I am getting married in March and am still in the process of shopping…I am totally against the concept of lots of dowry and find it stupid to take mounds of things to a place which already has everything necessary required (I am getting married in a joint family). My inlaws are quiet about it, they just said that we have a small store and not much place for your things. But they never said DONT bring anything, God has given us everything.My aunties keep telling me u shud take everything with you if you dont want to hear things from your inlaws…this worries me, please suggest me what to do…whenever i go for shopping i feel everything unnecessary and useless like fancy beddings, crockeries, juicers/blenders, tv, fridge, microwave and blah blah… what do youn guys say? should i take just the necessities with me and wait & see what my inlaws have to say to me or should i take the whole truck with me and sleep with bundles of things in my bedroom because they dont have space for my things. Please Help. Really Confused
It also depends on what kind of Inlaws you have doesn’t it do they seem to be in aww of glitz and stuff…you must have interacted with them so you probably know…do you feel they are the type who would care about what you took with you or not…are they in Karachi, or other place…out of country? all these things matter…