Re: How much is too much?
The less you talk about each other's past...the happier you'll be :)
Re: How much is too much?
The first time i ever had a drink was in Pakistan and also the first time I smoked a joint was also in Pakistan. ( Don't do those things anymore)
You mean you dont drink or smoke join in Pakistan anymore?
Khi khi.
Re: How much is too much?
OK now a serious reply to OP, and that also a religious one. (I know that Theorist and Bella may not like a religious reply but Islam is not as goofy as these two make it to be :p).
One of Allah's name is Al-Sattar. That means the Veiler of Sin. Its been disliked by Allah for people to go around talking about their past sins. He wants you to hide it, because he is hiding it for you. Allah has hidden your drinking for such a long time. What was your reason to go and started sharing it with others?
During the time of Caliph Umar, a guy brought his daughter and his slave, and said they have illicit relationship. Hazrat Umar became angry at him and said that how bad of a father you are that could not even hide your own daughter's sin. Similar incident happened in Prophet's time where a woman came and said that she had sex with another man. Prophet turned away pretending that he did not hear it. She came in front of his face again and repeated. Prophet again turned away pretending that he did not hear. This happened three times, and then fourth time prophet responded to her. The punishment happened but only because the woman was persistent about confessing again and again.
Re: How much is too much?
And that's the reason why you shouldn't marry Kids. Girls have told me so much about their past that I literally had my heart in my mouth because it was beating so fast. I can't believe that a muslim Pakistani girl would do such horrendous things. I don't even know why they tell me those things but let me tell you it drops your image in a guy's eye if you reveal dirty secrets about yourself. It's like the saying "After eating a billion mice the cat goes to the pilgrimage". If you sinned keep it to yourself man don't mess up the Fung-shue or whatever, Seriously girls have bones upon bones in their closets. shudders
On a serious note though don't tell him anymore dirty things other wise he will LOOSE all kind of respect he has for you. Even though he may not show it cause in pakistan dudes are all like "Oh hi my dear I love you dear" BS! When they speak in Punjabi with their friends that's when the truth comes out! They all be like "Oh yaara tennu ki dassa, meri voti churis eh". Yeah! Seriously DO NOT TRUST Guys! we are chauvinistic as ******** ok can I get a amen from the ladies on spilling the truth? And also a hi5 from the guys for telling it like it is right? RIGHT MA N*ggas? awww yeahhh..
Lol WRONG!
Depends on the past.
And what the other person is like.
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And that's the reason why you shouldn't marry Kids. Girls have told me so much about their past that I literally had my heart in my mouth because it was beating so fast. I can't believe that a muslim Pakistani girl would do such horrendous things. I don't even know why they tell me those things but let me tell you it drops your image in a guy's eye if you reveal dirty secrets about yourself. It's like the saying "After eating a billion mice the cat goes to the pilgrimage". If you sinned keep it to yourself man don't mess up the Fung-shue or whatever, Seriously girls have bones upon bones in their closets. shudders
On a serious note though don't tell him anymore dirty things other wise he will LOOSE all kind of respect he has for you. Even though he may not show it cause in pakistan dudes are all like "Oh hi my dear I love you dear" BS! When they speak in Punjabi with their friends that's when the truth comes out! They all be like "Oh yaara tennu ki dassa, meri voti churis eh". Yeah! Seriously DO NOT TRUST Guys! we are chauvinistic as ******** ok can I get a amen from the ladies on spilling the truth? And also a hi5 from the guys for telling it like it is right? RIGHT MA N*ggas? awww yeahhh..
Thats so wrong pendo. I have yet to hear a man tell about his wife that she is ******, they don't.
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Thats so wrong pendo. I have yet to hear a man tell about his wife that she is ******, they don't.
BRO if your wife smokes or drinks and you know it you actually share that with your best friend. My friend once told me that his wife has a stash of weed somewhere hidden because he can smell it from time to time in his room. I KID you not he was almost in tears. And yes he did marry a chursan...