How much is too much?

[Deeba1234]

Re: How much is too much?

@masoodsarwar

I don’t understand, why we need to tell around we have done this and that? Its different if something is troubling you and you vent it.

She didn’t need to tell.. she chose to..

@Theorist

Unless you plan to drink again, why would you share this piece of information with anyone? It makes no sense. It is generally a bad idea to tell your beloved your dirty secrets in order to shift your guilt. You just end up hurting them. Don’t do it again. I don’t mean drinking, I mean shifting your guilt for something you did and knew was wrong. That is not sharing, that is giving your baggage to someone else to worry about.

I don’t think it’s about shifting guilt.. maybe it’s me but that would never have even ocurred to me.. If someone told me they’d told their partner their deepest darkest secrets I’d assume it would be about becoming closer..

I’ve told my husband a lot because I wanted him to know the real me and love me for that..