How much is too much?

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Re: How much is too much?

@Reha

How much involvement (from a non-aggressive point of view) is too much from inlaws?

Im talking about inlaws you actually like, respect and want to keep happy.

Is it reasonable for them to want to see your paychecks, monitor your savings and give you an allowance?

I’d like, respect and want to keep them happy IF they respected my privacy and didn’t ask for keeping such tabs on me…respect is earned, and it goes two ways…I’d try my best to keep them happy, without offending them…just like I would do with my mum.