Suppose you’re visiting your inlaws wearing a designer lawn suit (for the first time in your life)…they ask you (including your FIL), “how much is this?” and because you’re fasting you can’t lie so you tell them the original price and after hearing the price your inlaws pass out. Then they show off their shopping skills boasting about their new 5 Indian blingy glitzy 90’s fashion suits they bought in that 1 lawn suit’s price.
What do you do in such situations? Do you carry on lying regardless of the roza?
Doesn’t matter what you feel like, they WILL do it. So the best thing to do is not to wear such pretty suits when going to in laws. Jeez, what have you learned in all these years of your marriage Hareemay? Tussi nak nu kaat ditta !
this first time has not come in my life yet :( so cant advice
just listen to them( dont react) and leave the place with a smile and forget what they said ...
Hypothetical question turned into a real question?
well, in such case, you just tell them the truth and let them give you all advices they would like. As long as you and your husband are on the same page, you shouldn’t be bothered because such is life you will hear a lot of people saying bad about you. At the end of the day, it’s your life and whatever you get has your husband’s agreement in it. Should not be anybody’s problem.
^ dts a very bad advice indeed. every time u visit with same suit then inlaws will definitely ask u or ur hubby what has she done with lot of suits we gave her or u gave her.
Hareem isn't it easy to just say that your husband got it for you as a gift and you've been asking him to stop spending so much money on these things but isn't he so nice ... something along those lines