How many would want your son to live seperately?

[Afro-Sheen]

Re: How many would want your son to live seperately?

@Reha

**Ohmigosh, why does moving out need to equate to abandoning parents? Why? What kind of fool would simply up and leave and never look back if his parents were aging, needed his help or depended on him? I dont know anyone like that.
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Why is it sooooooooooo difficult for desies to strike a balance? I dont understand why our qaum is so bad at this. Is it inconceivable to live 5 minutes away but see your parents a few times a week? Would that be abandoning them? Taking them to doctor’s appointments and grocery shopping when you do yours as well? Thats abandoning them?

Do you live with your parents Nadz? Why not? Why have you abandoned them? And before you come back with an answer saying “my brother or sister still live at home”…your responsibility is your responsibility…your brother and sister will not be questioned for what you needed to be doing.

OMG! My sentiments exactly!!! In this and other similar threads, why does moving out equal abandoning your parents??? Why can’t a man keep his wife in seperate living quarters in the same house or a seperate house altogether but still maintain great relations with his family? This way both his parents and his wife have the privacy they desire and in close proximity etc. Momma’s boys have no sense of “balance”.