How many of you would reject...

[dutch_paki]

*Originally posted by Chandbeti: *
not really dp, I would hate to bring up my kids like slaves. They will have the freedom to leave my home once they are done with their education. I mean, I will kick them out if they don’t.

ok, that s really good of you :halo:

but trust me, and you know it aswell, not manny ‘desi’ girls think like this.

[Sadiyah]

Kaleem, I believe decisions should be made mutually by the husband and wife. I'm sure they'd consult their parents if they think there is need for it.

When I mentioned in-laws, I meant when sons totally listen to their parents and reject whatever the wife has to say. Even when the wife is correct the son decides to go with what his parents have to say.

I'm against the imbalance where the husband or the wife makes all the decisions on his/her own.

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I agree with her in this case d_p :o

[Kaleem]

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*Originally posted by Roman: *

This should be put on top of HR fora in sunheri haroof.
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Romeo, I want to thank you for this ringing endorsment.

[ahmadjee]

You know guys, it's not very easy to change someone's habits, and it certainly doesn't happen over night. It takes patience, consideration, skill and a lot of forgiveness.

So, if you want to go that route make sure you have all the above.

p.s: Yes, my wife is still working on me.

[Mehnaz]

I honestly do not believe that most women who have been on the receiving end of the, "well, my parents are saying .... " or "my parents want .... " scenarios will ever willingly or conciously raise their child to act in a similar manner. Nor do I believe that most woman, who have been on the receiving end of this behaviour, will act in a similar fashion themselves in the future.

[Sadiyah]

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*Originally posted by MehnazQ: *
I honestly do not believe that most women who have been on the receiving end of the, "well, my parents are saying .... " or "my parents want .... " scenarios will ever willingly or conciously raise their child to act in a similar manner. Nor do I believe that most woman, who have been on the receiving end of this behaviour, will act in a similar fashion themselves in the future.
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Right on!

[Kaleem]

Mehnaz, its not that they will do it intentionally. This is how women are... Are you telling me that women do not try to change their men? Me says,, of course they do :). My wife is still working on me. I am not ashamed to admit that she is half way there. I am not sure she will ever be able to change the rest ....

[Muslim_Queen]

Re: How many of you would reject…

*Originally posted by sweetpie: *
a rishta based a person’s: 1) dress sense 2) baldness (considering it’s a HE) 3) body odor 4) way he/she talks 4) way he/she eats 5) facial expressions 6) add your own.

Feel free to combine any or all elements above and discuss. Thanks.

Physical attraction is important - but the above reasons just dont have any worth for a ‘no’ on my part.

[Mahnoor]

Re: How many of you would reject…

*Originally posted by sweetpie: *
a rishta based a person’s: 1) dress sense 2) baldness (considering it’s a HE) 3) body odor 4) way he/she talks 4) way he/she eats 5) facial expressions 6) add your own.

Feel free to combine any or all elements above and discuss. Thanks.

Yes, I would reject a Rishta. #1 he better have a good dressing sense, caz I know I do. Baldness, that’s God gifted, I don’t mind. # 3. I can’t stand smelly people, that’s why I gift everyone deodrants from US. As far as #4 and #5 goes he better talk and eat decent. Facial expressions once again they’re God gifted , I don’t mind

[sweetpie]

^ Mahnoor, thanks for the honesty, chica :k:

[system]

i love bald heads :) its so attractive

[LuxuryItem]

Re: How many of you would reject…

*Originally posted by sweetpie: *
a rishta based a person’s: 1) dress sense 2) baldness (considering it’s a HE) 3) body odor 4) way he/she talks 4) way he/she eats 5) facial expressions 6) add your own.

Feel free to combine any or all elements above and discuss. Thanks.

7. Idiotic threads started on web sites.

[Femme_Fatale]

I have to each one of the attributes mentioned found collectively and individually.

Hang me.

:suicide:

[crazyLarki]

baldness is ok (luv shaved head)......but anything else NOOOOOOO

[Femme_Fatale]

Shaved is ok but hanging on to remains of what was once a full head of hair is a sorry sight. Allah maaf karay though. Ugh. I'm horrible.

[system]

I don’t know if ‘rejection’ is the right word. Whenever I look back and think of the girls I have rejected in the past due to superficial reasons…it always humbles me and I seek forgiveness.

[system]

the shaved look is very :love:

femme watch out! u may end up with someone with qualities u totally dislike… Allah Mian na kare…

[Roman]

*Originally posted by Fayz: *
I don’t know if ‘rejection’ is the right word. Whenever I look back and think of the girls I have rejected in the past due to superficial reasons…it always humbles me and I seek forgiveness.

:k:

[sweetpie]

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*Originally posted by Fayz: *
I don’t know if ‘rejection’ is the right word. Whenever I look back and think of the girls I have rejected in the past due to superficial reasons…it always humbles me and I seek forgiveness.
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I feel the same, regarding men.