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Here is the ruling from my wife on wedding functions.
Dulha and Dulhan are the two people who enjoy the least and spend the most so they better save money ...so nikkah sadgi sai and modest function.
yeah, your wife is right. I also believe on sadgi kay sath nikkah. and actually a big fan of nikkah at mosque.
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according to the islamic law, a wedding ceremony should be segregated. no offense but women really shouldnt be all blinged out in front of non-mehram men...or dancing for that matter :-I
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according to the islamic law, a wedding ceremony should be segregated. no offense but women really shouldnt be all blinged out in front of non-mehram men...or dancing for that matter :-I
but you know, most of us dont follow Islam when it comes to our own wedding time. and start doing same stuff which we used to say bad in others wedding.
that is how our desi society work. :@:
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In my experience segragated weddings rarely stay that way - usually the stray guy will wander over to the women's side "just to speak to his wife/mum/sister" and then the rest will follow no point.
And that is one of the other reason i don't like the idea of segragated wedding. So friend of mine getting married this weekend. His issue is: he wanted mix wedding..but his wife who is apparently from religious family background..wanted segragated. Ya..he ended up compromising. Another case: I used to have fights with ex about this issue a lot.
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forgive my ignorance, arrogance, curiousness…but how can someone have a boyfriend but want a segregated wedding 
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challenging situation. 
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That is exactly what i used to have one of the fights about. Go figure.
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I don't like segregated weddings...pointless in my opinion.
Modesty costs a lot of money when you try to rent out two separate halls for men and women...I am cheap like that.
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I dont mind mixed weddings at all. Have always had them in my family.
But I dont like the idea of mehndis where there's proper dancing and we have totally unknown ppl from the other side ogling or making videos on cell phones. I preferably would like the mehndi to just have close family and all the ppl can join in for spontaneous dancing. But leave the prepared dances by the girls to women's eyes only!
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^ i couldnt agree more! Call me prudish but i dont approve of the dancing when all these strangers are staring. Mehndis should generally be a female-only event so that all the girls can participate and have a good time without being made uncomfortable by ogglers
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^ITA. some creepy uncles like to sneak in and ogle 
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^ i couldnt agree more! Call me prudish but i dont approve of the dancing when all these strangers are staring. Mehndis should generally be a female-only event so that all the girls can participate and have a good time without being made uncomfortable by ogglers
We always have mixed events...segregating them never came up.
I have yet to see someone make a video, dance inappropriately or ogle.
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^Exactly, I have never seen someone making video of the dances. Plus, most cousins (guys and girls) end up dancing together. My dad’s side tends to have dance floors put in on the mehndis and the bride, groom, their cousins, their siblings and the couple’s friends all join and dance together. It’s so much fun whereas my mom’s side none of the girls dance and most that’ll happen is the guys will do bhangra (we’re Lahoris, heh). That being said, I am the type who wont dance in front of a crowd or a group of people, guys or girls. 
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I have always danced at my sisters' weddings...never been a problem.
Its my party and I'll dance if I want to!
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I am too shy. :p
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I am too shy. :p
I was shy too...sat down every time a good song came on. Then I realized...I paid for that DJ! I am dancing!
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LOL^
Yeah, I def. plan on dancing and not being a shy bore when I get married, it's a promise I made to myself. >.<
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Or niklta wo kisi bichara k soyem hai 
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hahaha 
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I have always danced at my sisters' weddings...never been a problem.
Its my party and I'll dance if I want to!
Yap..same here..i have danced at my sibling wedding always. Ya..and some people point their finger and tell us we are very liberal ppl. Secondly..when it's mehndi occassion. Only close family and friends we invite..no ghair log..that we don't know. And we tell the other side same.