How many of you would like to have mix wedding here??

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Xtron November 23, 2011, 4:28pm 1

Alright so the idea of thread came when i was thinking about liberal vs non-liberal individuals. Before i say this, we should understand that every family
is different so please..don’t bash posters because you might not agree with them.

How many of you would have mix wedding here??

I personally like mix weddings. And our family always been open to idea and i guess i would like to have wedding in such manner.
Don’t know..don’t feel like going to segragated wedding if invited. Don’t know why. Is this because, i don’t get to see pretty girls. Well not only
because of that. I like having women around. Add color to a wedding. Now that is just idea.

M_was_here November 23, 2011, 4:40pm 2

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I hate segregated weddings and I find them boring. Sure, people can mingle freely and all that but it isn't the same when one half of the family (dad + brothers) are in one place and the other half (mom + sisters) are in the other. Thankfully the weddings in my family are always a combined event so I don't have to worry but my mom's family tends to sometimes do this but the guys still make their way into where the girls are and hang out with their cousins/mom/aunts/sisters etc.

STA November 23, 2011, 4:43pm 3

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i never sew anything wrong in mix weddings except dance. I believe mix wedding allow opportunities to single girls and boys to find possible spouses.

Decent_6Chora November 23, 2011, 4:53pm 4

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andha kia chahey, doo ankheen :)

hareem01 November 23, 2011, 4:55pm 5

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Segregated or not, I just like eating muft ka khana.

STA November 23, 2011, 4:58pm 6

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u bhi meri behan nikli. :@:

mirage November 23, 2011, 5:02pm 7

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mixed weddings are a big FUN no doubt. it hieghtens the celebration and sharpens the bond of the family, how extended it be. everyone feels like a proper and due part of the pleasure. the segregated ones are more formal and all that.

hareem01 November 23, 2011, 5:03pm 8

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hey I like dancing...I always used to do it on weddings, not anymore though, I don't think my husband would appreciate so now I just watch.

Decent_6Chora November 23, 2011, 5:03pm 9

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Thats the sprit!

tum loog wo ho jo hamesha dinner table k qareeb ke chairs ‘ghair’ laitey hain :k:

Mad_Hatter November 23, 2011, 5:03pm 10

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In my experience segragated weddings rarely stay that way - usually the stray guy will wander over to the women's side "just to speak to his wife/mum/sister" and then the rest will follow
no point.

hareem01 November 23, 2011, 5:04pm 11

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STA November 23, 2011, 5:05pm 12

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I saw many dances on mehndi and shadi, and it was fun time.

mirage November 23, 2011, 5:05pm 13

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han ji aor ap wo log hain jo larki walo ko kehte hain ham larkay ki taraf se larkaywalo se kehte hain ham larki ki taraf se hain

Decent_6Chora November 23, 2011, 5:06pm 14

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that was old trick. Now all you need is a polo suit and some confidence to walk and sit with close relatives so dinner could be served on table

STA November 23, 2011, 5:08pm 15

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mirage November 23, 2011, 5:09pm 16

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see thats why they say we learn and improve and eerrr that practice makes the man perfect thing :@:

Pepsi_ki_Botal November 23, 2011, 5:33pm 17

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stupid idea. we overspend on weddings as it is...just to have a shameeli dulhan and bored duldha sit on a stage for 2 hours, while the rest "enjoy" food and take pictures and talk about the sona ka haars and kitna cute coupleee heiiii.

might as well make is slightly entertaining by allowing people to communicate with whoever they please.

M_was_here November 23, 2011, 5:35pm 18

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^Exactly! And you're right, it saves money too AND allows those non-family members to not feel awkward by allowing them to sit together without having to separate and entertain themselves, esp. when they dont know anyone except the couple.

Decent_6Chora November 23, 2011, 5:36pm 19

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Here is the ruling from my wife on desi wedding functions.

"Dulha and Dulhan are the two people who enjoy the least and spend the most so they better save money ...so nikkah sadgi sai and modest function." --- These pearls of wisdom were uttered 2 days after out valima when she realized that she did not get Ice-cream which was on the menu :D

Captain_Obvious November 23, 2011, 5:37pm 20

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I like segregated weddings. Mine was that way and so were those of most of my friends. Unlike everyone else who has posted here so far, I've found the mixed ones to be more boring than the segregated ones I've seen.