How many of us were or are virgin/chaste and plan to remain so untill marriage.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: How many of us were or are virgin/chaste and plan to remain so untill marriage.

Its an instinct that one cannot help thinking about. Trust me, the girls here or outside in real life wont mention it, but we do have active imaginations.

[minah_pa]

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lussi - please, do you really believe any of us are superwomen able to avoid thinking about things?? It is natural for women to think of sex, just like it is natural for men. Part of the whole package that God created. Of course we think about it, but how we act on it is what matters.

[lussi]

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well okay...maybe i mispoke there...thinking doesnt do any harm..as long as it doesnt translate into action..reserve that action after marriage..

[minah_pa]

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yes, Daddy lussi..........

[lussi]

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well im glad u see things my way..yet again..:)

[suroor_ca02]

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@minah_pa

LOL - I had to read it twice to get the full impact

Aasha - you go girl!!

Hiccup - hey, don’t I know it, bad enough being an ABCD, try being Gori

We offered a man we had visiting our house from Pakistan a bed in the guest room for a week. After about four days living under our roof, this “man” who knows very little English crawls into the bed with me while my husband is in the bathroom taking a shower, I was dozing and popped awake when he touched my shoulder. Our bed is placed along a wall and I couldn’t get out of the bed without crawling over him. He asked, I said no, he said I love you (WHAT the F**K, like I’m an idiot who will just drop my pants for that line) I said NO!! He said come on and smiled, I said get the f*ck out of my bed before I scream for my husband.

The idiot got out of the bed, leanded over, and hit me right near the shoulder while saying something in his own language. I was ripping, I just let loose. Right up to that point I was trying to deal with it calmly.

Chaos ensued when the husband comes out of the bathroom in a towel to find out why his wife is chasing a man who was a guest around the house with a frying pan, the man is let out of the house eventually (after a tense and heated argument with said husband) never to return. My husband could only say that some people just don’t understand and that thinking like this and acting like this is why his people will never get anywhere in this world.

that is horrible!
urgh.. some men are just idiots.
beghairat behaya jahil loag.

[hiccup]

Re: How many of us were or are virgin/chaste and plan to remain so untill marriage.

minah that is one funny story. Why didnt you kill him.

[minah_pa]

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Suroor - thanks, it was horrible when it happened, now it is amusing in a twisted way.

hiccup - I really was trying to!! My husband being the calm, cool one waited until we ran by him again, then just grabbed the pan out of my hand. After finding out what was going on he told me to go in the bedroom and wait. Darn it, I always miss the good stuff, but he was right. Out of the two of us, he has the calmer head. I did manage to clock that idiot twice and drew blood with one of them, so I don't feel totally cheated.

You know it wasn't his wanting sex that bothered me or set me off the deep end, I know how to deal with that. It was his hitting me that made me want to kill him.

[hiccup]

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@minah_pa

Suroor - thanks, it was horrible when it happened, now it is amusing in a twisted way.

hiccup - I really was trying to!! My husband being the calm, cool one waited until we ran by him again, then just grabbed the pan out of my hand. After finding out what was going on he told me to go in the bedroom and wait. Darn it, I always miss the good stuff, but he was right. Out of the two of us, he has the calmer head. I did manage to clock that idiot twice and drew blood with one of them, so I don’t feel totally cheated.

You know it wasn’t his wanting sex that bothered me or set me off the deep end, I know how to deal with that. It was his hitting me that made me want to kill him.

Good going, if it was be I’d beat the guy senseless before “waiting in the bedroom”

haha, Im proud of you lovey.

[PyariCgudia]

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That's horrible minah-pa - good thing your husband dealt with him soundly. The nerve of a guy to think that he can get onto someone else's wife and have his way with her...and your husband was at home the entire time!!!

What a chutia.

[Sadiyah]

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minah_pa, that is truly very sad and shocking at the same time. it's so hard to believe such men exist.

[Starsky]

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Most husbands would have killed the guy for just touching their wife, let alone getting into her bed.

[Nilu]

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I was virgin till i got married if i had sex before marriage with a guy and my dad
come's 2 know he would kill me.

[suroor_ca02]

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lussi: dont be a dodo
kya ulti seedhi bolay ja rahay ho!

[Zalim_Wadera]

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Define virginity first. What are your standards? Over the years these have undergone changes.
Minah-pa: I am shocked to read about that episode!

[sara_zzz]

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what an ass. i wouldnt need a guy to kill him, i would have done it myself!!

i hate ppl who generalize about abcd's cus girls in pakistan are horrible too!

[minah_pa]

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well, it was that ol' gora myth at work with that one, he thought all he had to do was say I love you and he was in. Much later I had asked my husband why on earth he had said that, was he crazy? When he told me first I was upset, then I had to laugh.

Well, come to find out that it was partly my fault (sarcasm here). Appartently I smiled too much, was too nice, some stupid polite thing you do when you have guests, who knows and he thought I would.

But we have had plenty of people inour home that never would have dreamed to do that, but you don't find me generalizing Paki men because of it.

But sara_zzz - I have a daughter who is 16 and absolutely gorgeous, I love it when people generalize like that, especially before meeting her, makes it much easier to know who not to take seriously when it's her turn to find someone.