How many kids should one have?

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Can some one with experience tell me what’s the benefits of having one, two, three, etc… kids. I’m still trying to decide how many. I mean would it matter if you just had one? Wouldn’t he/she be lonely? Two? but then you need one more just cause. Help!

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jjust cause what? lol

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think of it this way...how did u like having 2 brothers? better yet, ask ur parents, how they liked having 3 boys, instead of 3 girls or 2 girls and a boy or 2 boys and a girl or 1 girl or 1 boy or 5 girls and boys and i cud go on and on and on and on

waisey these thngs u cant even control.. :)

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u know it really depends on the couple , their specific goals and wat they want in future. Some people like kids to the point that they always want a baby in the house...replacing the one that grows up with a new version...and for some bache do hi achche!!mansooba bandhi !!!

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I want 8 like my grandma!

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good luck from us then, dude...keep us posted with the yearly model :D

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my mom wants a new model from my bhabhi every year....they'll all be "aans" :D

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^^ :D...man!! thats terrible..:D...I hope she will be pitching in for help when the models do arrive...:D

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I remember you.

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atleast 3.now i want one more daughter but ab himmat nahi hoti :)

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Even one kid becomes a burden if had in wrong circumstances... so planning is critical. ;)

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^n was that kid u?

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^^:rotfl:

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Mabrook, this is not cafe'. :D

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yea u r right :) but still bacha wrong nahi ho sakta,insan ki soch ho sakti hai.like i wasn't ready when i had my gal but now shes here i hav no regrets but just thankfullness.

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Thankfulness is definitely there but little planning can go long way... I guess, one learns from his/her mistakes. :)

Now that we are facing the D word, my son who is 15 months, well you get the picture.

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but then its always ur kids who force u to work on ur relationship,to forget ur differences for the sake of their future.So the D word can always b avoided wat if there's no such option.like when we live with our parents n siblings we go thru ups n downs n differences but there is no such escape so should b same among husband n wife unless koi buhat he azeem wajah ho

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**Circus **jub lagti hai to shor hota hai par log enjoy kartey hain... par jub **circus **ka apna shair ya hathi pagal ho kar circus walon ko nuksaan ponchaye to phir usey goli maar deni chaheye, kya khiyaal hai?

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kisi baray ko ya counceller ko beech main dalain.kuch time baat cheet band ker k aik dosray ko time out dain.jub ghussa thanda ho tu cool n calmly prob discuss kerain.
If ur partner is not mentally ill or unfaithful then every prob can hav solutions.baqi i'll definitely pray Allah aap donon ko help keray

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I want 5-7kids... u can never have enough :D

Have u ever loved and lost.....?