Re: How many Jewelry Sets did you get??
I acknowledge that the inequality WOULD be unsettling. I really DO think that feeling a bit hurt/miffed is a normal reaction. You’re human…and I think many women (even if they don’t really want another jewelry set) would feel this way. It’s more about principals than about the materialism. Apart from jewelry…a woman might complain about OTHER differences in treatment displayed by her in-laws (such as complimenting one DIL and ignoring/huring the other, etc). Again it’s natural…but try not to dwell on something that you 1) will not get any answers for…and 2) could potentially cause drama in your marriage/susraal. Allah’s watching and your in-laws (if they had ill intentions) will be held accountable. You continue to take the higher road…be the bigger person…don’t bring up this jewelry matter with your husband or in-laws…and just focus your energy on more positive things. You TRULY CAN mentally move on from something if you repeatedly make the conscious effort to direct your thoughts toward a more positive area…with time you’ll get over it. Every time the thought of the gold set enters your head…just redirect your mind elsewhere. It’s challenging, but not impossible.