luvblingz I can understand your feelings that at times it may feel like they are differentiating between you and your SIL…but maybe when you got married that’s all they could afford? My mom got 1 set when she got married..10 yrs later my mom’s sister got married and she got 3 sets…it’s just what my grandparents could afford at each daughter’s wedding not because they wouldn’t give my mom more than one set if they could…Also, you should just think that whatever is in your kismet you will get it and whatever is in your SIL’s kismet she will get…if she has two sets in her kismet and you had 1 then Allhumdulilllah you got 1 gold set there are brides who live all their lives and never wear any gold…