just wondering, how many children would you like to have or already have?
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Only have one right now and wouldn’t mind keeping it like this (he is a handfull,) but i know we will have one more inshAllah!
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I’ve two ![]()
Not sure if we will have more
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I’ve got one and will have my second in September iA. And that’s it! Boy or girl, this next baby is our “family is complete alhamdulillah!” baby! This pregnancy has been rough and it’s just so crystal clear to both of us that we are done.
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oh sorry to hear about your rough pregnancy. hopefully you will get through easily and have a healthy baby. how old is your first child?
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Allah has blessed us with one daughter Alhamdullillah.
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It’s totally a personal choice.
I have 2 and one on the way … I would totally want more children. Maybe one more … maybe 2? I don’t know what the future holds but I just love kids … they have brought SO much happiness to my life. They’ve filled it with so much love. I never thought I’d want more than 2
But inshallah … would love more in the future.
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ammi used to say that one should have as many children as one can afford to educate well…and included in that count was the cost of raising at least one orphaned child.
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^ thts wht my huby says, I have one and my huby says one is enough I want to give quality life to her, but I want one or two more ![]()
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Thank you, lady! Inshallah! ![]()
he’s 3 today actually, mA!
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ive got two alhamdulillah n thought to had two.. now third one is expected this month in sha ALLAH n now i think to have 3.. bt i think its all upto Allah… our plannings dont matter…
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I have one Mashallah and its been lovely having him in our lives. Up till a few months ago, I couldn’t convince myself to have more but lately I’ve been feeling that my baby really needs a sibling. My husband says he wants four, but I disagree. I don’t think i could handle 4 . 2 is a good number for me. lets see… we can only plan but its in God’s hands.
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awww Happy birthday to him ![]()
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I want to have at least 4…
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I want 3 lol, but honestly am happy with whatever Allah (swt) gives us ![]()
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I have one…want one more…lets see what Allah has planned for us
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You never know what Allah has planned for you. For years I knew my family was complete with 2 boys and a girl and that was it I never thought about any more I was very content with what we had been blessed with.
Something happened in 2011, I got broody beyond belief and had another, I can’t believe me of all people had another and my little baby princess is now 18 months old, full of life, smiles and a total wake up call from Allah to say who are YOU to decide you had enough children.
You just never know…
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did you mean how many evolved monkey to have?
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I have a 19 month old girl and another on the way. I am an ONLY CHILD so I’ve always wanted a big family but my daughter is SO incredibly high needs, active, fussy, and such a handful that I can’t even imagine having more than 2 right now!
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I never really gave it much thought prior to marriage. After I got married, we knew we didn’t want kids right away, but when we were ready, we found out about some medical conditions of mine which led us down the road of surgeries and fertility treatments. We did IVF twice, first time we conceived our eldest son and the second time we had twins. We always joke that we bought one and got one free on that second round ![]()
I cannot have anymore children, but it doesn’t matter. I’m perfectly content with my 3 healthy and beautiful boys, alhamdullillah!